"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"pimples" on shaft

Drifter

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This is the second time this has happened and it freaked me out.

I had unprotected sex with this one chick and a few days later two large, very full, red pimples appeared on my shaft.

While I freaked out at first I hoped they were perhaps pimples and let them go.

Well its been about two months since then, and ive had another one of these appear on the shaft.

Its only on the shaft tho and not the head... im very confused.
I wonder if they are just pimples from sweating... but this whole thing has me nervous... any takes?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Normally zits on your dork are no problem, but large red full ones could very well be syphilis chancres. They will suceed in a few days, but that's only the beginning. May be cause to get checked, but just in case you don't want a q-tip shoved into your urethra, you can wait and see if a rash developes anywhere on your body. That's the 2nd stage of syphilis. It can be treated within the 1st or 2nd stage, but not afterwards.
 

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thanks for the advice.
In any case i wanna get tested.
i know the girl i was with wasnt exactly a good girl, and she was actually pretty sick that day.

like she fainted the next morning right in front of me.
might have been drugs or something, but i dont know.
she seemed to be in a lot of pain.

i dont have health insurance tho.
and ive been to planned parenthood before and i know they dont do all of the tests, only a few.... besides im 19

anyone have any idea how much a doctors visit will cost?

it feels good to be a DJ again but from now on im going with quality not quantity, and being safe, trust me guys its not worth.

wait till you wonder if you have something you'll know what im talkin bout
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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