Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"pimples" on shaft

Drifter

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This is the second time this has happened and it freaked me out.

I had unprotected sex with this one chick and a few days later two large, very full, red pimples appeared on my shaft.

While I freaked out at first I hoped they were perhaps pimples and let them go.

Well its been about two months since then, and ive had another one of these appear on the shaft.

Its only on the shaft tho and not the head... im very confused.
I wonder if they are just pimples from sweating... but this whole thing has me nervous... any takes?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soshyopathe

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Normally zits on your dork are no problem, but large red full ones could very well be syphilis chancres. They will suceed in a few days, but that's only the beginning. May be cause to get checked, but just in case you don't want a q-tip shoved into your urethra, you can wait and see if a rash developes anywhere on your body. That's the 2nd stage of syphilis. It can be treated within the 1st or 2nd stage, but not afterwards.
 

Drifter

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thanks for the advice.
In any case i wanna get tested.
i know the girl i was with wasnt exactly a good girl, and she was actually pretty sick that day.

like she fainted the next morning right in front of me.
might have been drugs or something, but i dont know.
she seemed to be in a lot of pain.

i dont have health insurance tho.
and ive been to planned parenthood before and i know they dont do all of the tests, only a few.... besides im 19

anyone have any idea how much a doctors visit will cost?

it feels good to be a DJ again but from now on im going with quality not quantity, and being safe, trust me guys its not worth.

wait till you wonder if you have something you'll know what im talkin bout
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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