isonlaxman
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 29, 2019
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- Age
- 24
Context: I've been masturbating since I was like 12, and it has just gotten worse and worse. While I did read all about NoFap, I wasn't very convinced and kept doing it. I never had any sexual encounter though, so there was that. I was a big beta and knew nothing about seduction. I started reading books and approaching girls more. I am going to the gym regularly as well, and I think at this point many girls find me attractive.
Moving on, I matched with this girl on Tinder, and everything was going smoothly. There was light flirting on text. We set up a date, we watched a movie together, made out, took off our clothes. And my **** was dead. I had only masturbated in the morning so it shouldn't have been a problem. I'm not sure. But I couldn't get it up. It was my first time, so maybe because of that, I had anxiety. Idk.
This was a very traumatizing event, and I couldn't bring myself to look into her eyes after that. I researched online after that though, and I guess this is not as uncommon? If so, what should I be doing to make sure I am turned on?
I did some experiments, I could get hard if I touched my **** without porn/fantasy. However, I could not get it hard just by fantasy (without touching). Is that bad? I never really thought about it, but we are supposed to be able to get hard without actual touching right? Is this due to excessive fapping? Is it just performance anxiety?
This has been the most shameful experience in my life. I feel very lost and VERY scared.
Moving on, I matched with this girl on Tinder, and everything was going smoothly. There was light flirting on text. We set up a date, we watched a movie together, made out, took off our clothes. And my **** was dead. I had only masturbated in the morning so it shouldn't have been a problem. I'm not sure. But I couldn't get it up. It was my first time, so maybe because of that, I had anxiety. Idk.
This was a very traumatizing event, and I couldn't bring myself to look into her eyes after that. I researched online after that though, and I guess this is not as uncommon? If so, what should I be doing to make sure I am turned on?
I did some experiments, I could get hard if I touched my **** without porn/fantasy. However, I could not get it hard just by fantasy (without touching). Is that bad? I never really thought about it, but we are supposed to be able to get hard without actual touching right? Is this due to excessive fapping? Is it just performance anxiety?
This has been the most shameful experience in my life. I feel very lost and VERY scared.