Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey, you actually look like a pretty cool guypooparu said:I had just asked if anyone wanted to do it. I guess I'll hop on with my myspace pic, I'll just take it down later if no one else posts theres:
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Edit: Yorgho don't let me be alone damnit post yours lmao.
I'll just take mine down if this never takes off the ground, but we should start one up guys, what if our next door neighbors were DJs.
P.S. Those are some pearly white sinks in my pic
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yea man, you too, I'll meet you one day. Don't think I'm pissed at you about that angelus **** either man, it's just kinda annoying to see good threads and **** go down because of that ****, but I don't have any less respect for you.Krassus said:Hey, you actually look like a pretty cool guy
Yea mann I know what you mean, its human instinct to wanna go with the group.qweretyuiopas said:
:nono: :nono: :nono: LOL we should call this "stoned picture thread" everyone takes pics while they are stoned *imagines pics with guys and lots of chips or a big bowl of mac & cheese*pooparu said:Yea mann I know what you mean, its human instinct to wanna go with the group.
But someone had to jump in and lead!!!! AND I AM LEADING WITH THE POWER OF MARY JANE!!!!!
Stoned senseless, I'm gonna get a pic of myself like this lmao.
Edit:
This is your brains on drugs.
Remember, only users lose drugs
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LOL arsenio nice. Baked and complimented, this I declare to be a good day.Espi said:
