"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Picture Of Girlfriend

CORVETTE06

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Should I put out the picture of my girlfriend on my desk at work for all to see? Will it hurt me in any way work-wise?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In2theGame

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bro that's something you do when ur married and u put a picture of ur wife up.
 

Desert Fox

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Yeah definitely bro!

Prove to the entire office that women obviously can tolerate your insecure behavior and they should too!
 

AKA FLEX

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CORVETTE06 said:
Should I put out the picture of my girlfriend on my desk at work for all to see? Will it hurt me in any way work-wise?
If you're in a serious relationship, I don't see why not. I see lots of people at work who do this, and they seem to be moving up fine in the company. It may hurt you as far as the p---y you get from chicks at work (or it could help), but if you're serious about your GF, you shouldn't be concerned with that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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strey

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Desert Fox said:
Prove to the entire office that women obviously can tolerate your insecure behavior and they should too!
haha, thats funny
 

guywhoneedshelp

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CORVETTE06 said:
Should I put out the picture of my girlfriend on my desk at work for all to see? Will it hurt me in any way work-wise?
Dude, put her on your phone, your laptop desktop background, somewhere where you will see, and she will see. That's all who needs to see. You see her and it makes you happy, she see it and she feels loved.
 
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