CORVETTE06
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Should I put out the picture of my girlfriend on my desk at work for all to see? Will it hurt me in any way work-wise?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Picture Of Girlfriend
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
In2theGame
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bro that's something you do when ur married and u put a picture of ur wife up.
Desert Fox
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Yeah definitely bro!
Prove to the entire office that women obviously can tolerate your insecure behavior and they should too!
Prove to the entire office that women obviously can tolerate your insecure behavior and they should too!
If you're in a serious relationship, I don't see why not. I see lots of people at work who do this, and they seem to be moving up fine in the company. It may hurt you as far as the p---y you get from chicks at work (or it could help), but if you're serious about your GF, you shouldn't be concerned with that.CORVETTE06 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
guywhoneedshelp
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Dude, put her on your phone, your laptop desktop background, somewhere where you will see, and she will see. That's all who needs to see. You see her and it makes you happy, she see it and she feels loved.CORVETTE06 said: