"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
After pondering it further, it was two pictures that I read WAY TOO MUCH into. PlayHerMan would call me a b*tch for getting emotional over something so insignificant I'm sure.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Other threads say it's good to have an insecure GF vs a secure one. She is reaching out for a reaction from me by posting these two pictures. I've been an emotionless stone because I've read too much on this site. Don't get me wrong it works very well for seduction and getting a girl to fall for you initially. But once you're in a relationship and her emotions are pulled by you, being emotionless doesn't work I've found. She needs some beta mixed with alpha in this relationship.
I used to be extremely protective of my GFs and I'm learning that just pushes them away. It's a picture; there wasn't physical intimacy in it. She wasn't alone when visiting.
Boundaries are fine in a relationship and cheating is 100% unacceptable.
SgtSplacker
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Problem solved..
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SamTheHobit
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Snow Plowman
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You made a "forum" ****up your relationship hahahahahah. Ok, so she took pictures of DUDES she used to hang with in college. Whether they used to fool around OR not is irrelevant. Do you not have ENOUGH TRUST in yourself and your woman that she DID NOT CHEAT??? She hasn't seen these people in a long time of course she's going to want to enjoy herself.
An you know why you are ALLOWED to give benefit of the doubt because if something ever did come up, you could non-nonchalantly walk away (if you so choose) and meet another cutie.
I really can't believe you broke up with her (and I'm a guy who doesn't believe in monogamy) I see NOTHING that justified such actions. It only shows a reflection of you.
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Not only is it easier for me to know when i'm in there or not by basically forcing her to speak to me in plain english. But I force her to realize that she actually wants something from me. Thats a big deal with women, they have to realize it's them that wants the relationship. It has to be this way because they are the ones that are constantly being approached by men. You have to keep spinning plates man, it's the only way to show a woman that you really have options. Spin plates and tell her about it... tactfully of course.
Think about it, this is exactly what she is doing to you. You need to flip the script man...
She is posting those pictures because she really doesn't care, she even told you things are not AOK with you two. Pursuit is an unavoidable sign of weakness in this case. If you had options why would you pursue some female that is basically worthless to you because she is so far away? Can't hit it, cant take her out, no companionship...
Speak her language man, it's the only thing she is going to understand. Don't be the chump standing on the sidelines looking for handouts. Go get your own steak to sink your teeth into. Maybe by the time she moves back she will have some respect for you.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Then this bull**** started. I'm good at seduction and I was able to get the girl back that said she'd "never been anything more than friends with me" but my relationship game and handling "**** tests" definitely needs work.
PackDaddy
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End of the day - You shouldn't care about women as much. Disrespect = get your a$$ out.
This is how I felt initially and told her calmly it was disrespectful. She agreed, said it's been a problem in the past (no ****) but didn't take the picture down. How do you define what is a **it test and what is truly disrespectful?PackDaddy said:
I'm not upset any more. I'm HAPPIER since we broke up which should be the clearest of signs.