"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Picky women in the online world

saki

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anyone got any tips for getting a girls attention online? Damn these girls are getting harder and harder to talk to. For example, I was talking to this chick and she asked me if I liked filipino food, and I said that I wouldnt eat it, and then she stopped talking to me. What is it with all these picky biatches? Dont they know they will never find a man by doing this? What are some online catch phrases or tricks that will pull a woman in? I mean making her chase you, this is just for online of course. Thanks,
Saki
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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becker

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I keep things pretty light online, nothing serious, just flirty, and the girl will offer you her number if she's interested in getting to know you better. That's the way it's worked for me at least.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Online catch phrases work as well as pick up lines in bars. Dude, it's a two way street. Why not try selecting them instead of you trying to get picked?
 

aBAzLLnA

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There's a post about online dating, just do a little search.
 

hardwork

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Discussion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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McKindley

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Girls online are looking for Brad Pitt with an M.D. They're looking for guys that don't exist, and get mad when they don't find them. Don't waste your time. Just talk to girls in real life.
 

Mack Bishop

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never tried the online dating thing but i think the best way to handle it would be to make yourself scarce. if youre using AIM then just talk to the girl for a little bit and abruptly sign off, sometimes saying bye sometimes not, so u look like ur too busy to be ****in around online. that way u can get the number and meet her quicker cos talkin on the internet is no way to get *****
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by McKindley
Girls online are looking for Brad Pitt with an M.D. They're looking for guys that don't exist, and get mad when they don't find them. Don't waste your time. Just talk to girls in real life.
Women call me Dr. Pitt! :D
 

saki

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Thxs for the advice guys. Im just trying to sharpen my pimp skills online, but ya the biatches are looking for someone that has it all. Most are just straight up hoes, but its a good way to decipher who the biatch really is and if I would want to see them in real life.
 
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