"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Location: NYC
June 20

Unbelieveable!!!! I used to think id never be able to pick up women but finally I am onsing regularly!

I was at Pacha and this HB 9 was standing with her friend by the bar...... I totally came in boxed her friend out
Me: Hey that tanktop is really cool.. its giving me a seizure
HB9: HAHAHAHAHA ohh yeah why is that?
Me: It looks like something out of a George Michael video... *laugh* I'm pickupmilitia
HB9: Hi im HB9
Me: Where you from?
HB9: Chelsea
Me: ohhh cool
... then gave the friend attention and got her approval.... I came back later and asked them if they wanted to bounce to gaslight... her friend had to go home so me and my target went.... b4 I know it its back to my place... awwwwwwwwww yeah! <boing boing boing>


If I can do it so can you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it keeps getting better :)
 
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You realize all that time you spent trying to get with her you could have been doing something useful for civilization...

Anyways man congratulations... its awesome you are starting to see some results

I was supposed to go to PACHA in July but never got there... Any good?
 
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