"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pickup Locations

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Don Juan
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My experience with places to meet girls has been;

Online: some success, but most not great looking or crazy *****es.

Through friends: Limited success, lots of meeting new girls, none that liked me, or the one or two that did were very low quality or simply after a sprog. At the moment my friendship circle is small with very little contact with girls.

Street Pickup: Only started trying this when I'm about lately, mostly when I'm in town to go to the shops. No success. Only tried 3 girls though, 2 who were sat down, and one who was walking along.

Clubs: Zero Success

I'm thinking at the moment best way to go is continue sparking up convo with girls when I'm out and about, and eventually a number. When I do spark up convo not wanting to be judgemental I often think I can tell within a few moments whether a girl is the 'type' that I want, or more specifically a type I do not want!

Do I need to widen my scope somehow, any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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traffic

Don Juan
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Weddings.

Last summer I went 2 for 2 at weddings.

Wish I had more friends getting married.
 

Effington

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Weddings are definitely money. Friends should be #1 on the list, too. Sports groups and clubs are high on that list, too.
 
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