"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Juan
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My experience with places to meet girls has been;

Online: some success, but most not great looking or crazy *****es.

Through friends: Limited success, lots of meeting new girls, none that liked me, or the one or two that did were very low quality or simply after a sprog. At the moment my friendship circle is small with very little contact with girls.

Street Pickup: Only started trying this when I'm about lately, mostly when I'm in town to go to the shops. No success. Only tried 3 girls though, 2 who were sat down, and one who was walking along.

Clubs: Zero Success

I'm thinking at the moment best way to go is continue sparking up convo with girls when I'm out and about, and eventually a number. When I do spark up convo not wanting to be judgemental I often think I can tell within a few moments whether a girl is the 'type' that I want, or more specifically a type I do not want!

Do I need to widen my scope somehow, any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don Juan
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Weddings.

Last summer I went 2 for 2 at weddings.

Wish I had more friends getting married.
 

Effington

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Weddings are definitely money. Friends should be #1 on the list, too. Sports groups and clubs are high on that list, too.
 
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