"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Juan
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My experience with places to meet girls has been;

Online: some success, but most not great looking or crazy *****es.

Through friends: Limited success, lots of meeting new girls, none that liked me, or the one or two that did were very low quality or simply after a sprog. At the moment my friendship circle is small with very little contact with girls.

Street Pickup: Only started trying this when I'm about lately, mostly when I'm in town to go to the shops. No success. Only tried 3 girls though, 2 who were sat down, and one who was walking along.

Clubs: Zero Success

I'm thinking at the moment best way to go is continue sparking up convo with girls when I'm out and about, and eventually a number. When I do spark up convo not wanting to be judgemental I often think I can tell within a few moments whether a girl is the 'type' that I want, or more specifically a type I do not want!

Do I need to widen my scope somehow, any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don Juan
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Weddings.

Last summer I went 2 for 2 at weddings.

Wish I had more friends getting married.
 

Effington

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Weddings are definitely money. Friends should be #1 on the list, too. Sports groups and clubs are high on that list, too.
 
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