Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pickup in Asian Countries

Blazing Redfish

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Hey Guys,

I am new to this forum, so pardon me if there have been discussions about this previously. I am wondering if someone can share their perspective with me. I live in Singapore and people in most Asian countries I know (especially women) are at best not very open at meeting strangers (relative to western countries) and at worst, very suspicious of strangers trying to talk to them. I do believe that even though women all over the world share very major commonalities, cultures do shape some differences. Most of the openers I read so far, would generate a weird look from the girls in most Asian countries. So is there anyone living in Asia who can share their ways of opening women (both club or non club scene) that HAVE WORKED before?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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future dj

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dude what the hell are you on about....what openers.....just go up and say hi....forget the stupid lines.....women are women....

P.S. i used to live in singapore but moved to do my uni
 

Celadus

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I was in Asia for about 2 months last summer. MOre than half in China. I was in Singapore for about a week or two. They are a lot more reserved in Singapore but its nothing like China. Those girls loved Americans but would not look you in the face. I was not there long but I suspect in Singapore it takes a little more time, with the Chinese girls anyway. My taxi driver told me almost every young person in Singapore basically lives with his or her parents until they get married.

I think a more friendly way would work better on the street. It probably does not matter a whole lot on Boat Quay. The girls there seemed very westernized. Singapore is pretty westernized in general.

Celadus
 

mrswabe

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I'm from the Philippines. I believe that approaching women here is just the same as in the West.

The difference starts at the kiss. It takes much longer to get to the kiss, the make-out and eventually n00kie.

This may be due to ASD. Here it is a very conservative predominantly Catholic/Christian society.
 

Charm

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Seems like the DJ philosophy still makes sense in these places. It might take longer for some girls to get in the sack, but that's often a person to person basis.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tha Realnezz

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You guys seem to forget that asians are submissive to whites esepecially americans.

Of course you'll get laid over there more so than the asian men themselves.

I don't know why they associate they're white ass-kissing with there economic acheivments but they do.It's like they feel endebted to you guys.
 
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