"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pickup in Asian Countries

Blazing Redfish

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Hey Guys,

I am new to this forum, so pardon me if there have been discussions about this previously. I am wondering if someone can share their perspective with me. I live in Singapore and people in most Asian countries I know (especially women) are at best not very open at meeting strangers (relative to western countries) and at worst, very suspicious of strangers trying to talk to them. I do believe that even though women all over the world share very major commonalities, cultures do shape some differences. Most of the openers I read so far, would generate a weird look from the girls in most Asian countries. So is there anyone living in Asia who can share their ways of opening women (both club or non club scene) that HAVE WORKED before?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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future dj

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dude what the hell are you on about....what openers.....just go up and say hi....forget the stupid lines.....women are women....

P.S. i used to live in singapore but moved to do my uni
 

Celadus

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I was in Asia for about 2 months last summer. MOre than half in China. I was in Singapore for about a week or two. They are a lot more reserved in Singapore but its nothing like China. Those girls loved Americans but would not look you in the face. I was not there long but I suspect in Singapore it takes a little more time, with the Chinese girls anyway. My taxi driver told me almost every young person in Singapore basically lives with his or her parents until they get married.

I think a more friendly way would work better on the street. It probably does not matter a whole lot on Boat Quay. The girls there seemed very westernized. Singapore is pretty westernized in general.

Celadus
 

mrswabe

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I'm from the Philippines. I believe that approaching women here is just the same as in the West.

The difference starts at the kiss. It takes much longer to get to the kiss, the make-out and eventually n00kie.

This may be due to ASD. Here it is a very conservative predominantly Catholic/Christian society.
 

Charm

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Seems like the DJ philosophy still makes sense in these places. It might take longer for some girls to get in the sack, but that's often a person to person basis.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tha Realnezz

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You guys seem to forget that asians are submissive to whites esepecially americans.

Of course you'll get laid over there more so than the asian men themselves.

I don't know why they associate they're white ass-kissing with there economic acheivments but they do.It's like they feel endebted to you guys.
 
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