"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Prodoge

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Would you sacrifice some looks amd stick woth one who is you know is into you and wants to be with you ?

I mean sacrificing smoking hot (9 & 10) for (7 &8), not talking about ugly ones F. that.

My problem is I have trouble comitting to things because I am worried I can find better.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would you sacrifice some looks amd stick woth one who is you know is into you and wants to be with you ?

I mean sacrificing smoking hot (9 & 10) for (7 &8), not talking about ugly ones F. that.

My problem is I have trouble comitting to things because I am worried I can find better.
Sameee
 

Who Dares Win

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Would you sacrifice some looks amd stick woth one who is you know is into you and wants to be with you ?

I mean sacrificing smoking hot (9 & 10) for (7 &8), not talking about ugly ones F. that.

My problem is I have trouble comitting to things because I am worried I can find better.
Hardly you will find someone who says no but you talk as if we have 9s and 10s available but we drop them and instead get 7s and 8s as a second option.

For many guys an 8 is beyond access, especially in western cultures nowadays where even 6 expect an 8 in guys.

You question would have much more sense in my opinion if you talked about dropping high maintenance 8s to get pleasable 6s.

A guy that has a friendly low maintenance 8 as girlfriend nowadays has to be a 9 himself...hardly the case unless we live in a delusional world.
 

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The older I get the less I give a shyt about hot and bubbly and the more I give a shyt about my sanity and self respect.

For some daym reason there seems to be a coorelation.
 
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Fvcking hot women is great, but after a while you start to realize that pvssy is pvssy. They vary a little bit, but most of them are identical.

I'm turning 40 in a few months. I've fvcked enough hot women to know I can land damn near anything I want. Right now, all I want is a woman who's gonna treat me like a king. Make her earn my c0ck. I don't want sex if it means having to deal with a woman who's an annoying and self-righteous piece of 5hit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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