"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Prodoge

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Would you sacrifice some looks amd stick woth one who is you know is into you and wants to be with you ?

I mean sacrificing smoking hot (9 & 10) for (7 &8), not talking about ugly ones F. that.

My problem is I have trouble comitting to things because I am worried I can find better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would you sacrifice some looks amd stick woth one who is you know is into you and wants to be with you ?

I mean sacrificing smoking hot (9 & 10) for (7 &8), not talking about ugly ones F. that.

My problem is I have trouble comitting to things because I am worried I can find better.
Sameee
 

Who Dares Win

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Would you sacrifice some looks amd stick woth one who is you know is into you and wants to be with you ?

I mean sacrificing smoking hot (9 & 10) for (7 &8), not talking about ugly ones F. that.

My problem is I have trouble comitting to things because I am worried I can find better.
Hardly you will find someone who says no but you talk as if we have 9s and 10s available but we drop them and instead get 7s and 8s as a second option.

For many guys an 8 is beyond access, especially in western cultures nowadays where even 6 expect an 8 in guys.

You question would have much more sense in my opinion if you talked about dropping high maintenance 8s to get pleasable 6s.

A guy that has a friendly low maintenance 8 as girlfriend nowadays has to be a 9 himself...hardly the case unless we live in a delusional world.
 

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The older I get the less I give a shyt about hot and bubbly and the more I give a shyt about my sanity and self respect.

For some daym reason there seems to be a coorelation.
 
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Fvcking hot women is great, but after a while you start to realize that pvssy is pvssy. They vary a little bit, but most of them are identical.

I'm turning 40 in a few months. I've fvcked enough hot women to know I can land damn near anything I want. Right now, all I want is a woman who's gonna treat me like a king. Make her earn my c0ck. I don't want sex if it means having to deal with a woman who's an annoying and self-righteous piece of 5hit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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