After being on this site for nearly four years, I believe a lot of guys here psyche themselves out when they go out clubbing or to a bar. I really don't think it should be all that complicated for a few reasons:
1) Most women at bars/clubs are already in a receptive state of mind. The atmosphere/music/alcohol does 80% of the work for us.
2) Many women are at bars/clubs for the specific reason of hooking up.
3) Women like sex just as much as we do.
I hear about guys strategizing and planning out their entire Friday night. They've got to listen to certain music to pump themselve up before they go out; they've got to wear certain shoes; etc., etc. If this helps you, then more power to you, but I really don't think it's necessary.
Honestly, you could fvck up pretty badly in a club and still get laid. I could trip over my shoelaces in a club and get laid. It's almost if you have to try NOT to get laid when you're in a bar/club. Why? Because that's what bars/clubs are for! Women are more forgiving than people here make them out to be (yes, even the 10s). Like I said, they want it just as badly as we do, and they even try to make it *easy* (eg. eye contact, smiling, etc.) for us guys to pick them up.
It is my firm belief that 99% of guys here could have sex with 7s-10s whenever they want if they just relaxed and let their instincts take over. I mean, nature *wants* us to procreate, for God's sake. It shouldn't be this complicated.
1) Most women at bars/clubs are already in a receptive state of mind. The atmosphere/music/alcohol does 80% of the work for us.
2) Many women are at bars/clubs for the specific reason of hooking up.
3) Women like sex just as much as we do.
I hear about guys strategizing and planning out their entire Friday night. They've got to listen to certain music to pump themselve up before they go out; they've got to wear certain shoes; etc., etc. If this helps you, then more power to you, but I really don't think it's necessary.
Honestly, you could fvck up pretty badly in a club and still get laid. I could trip over my shoelaces in a club and get laid. It's almost if you have to try NOT to get laid when you're in a bar/club. Why? Because that's what bars/clubs are for! Women are more forgiving than people here make them out to be (yes, even the 10s). Like I said, they want it just as badly as we do, and they even try to make it *easy* (eg. eye contact, smiling, etc.) for us guys to pick them up.
It is my firm belief that 99% of guys here could have sex with 7s-10s whenever they want if they just relaxed and let their instincts take over. I mean, nature *wants* us to procreate, for God's sake. It shouldn't be this complicated.
