"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Picking up Korean girls

funnygolem

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I am a new poster here, and by reputation I hear this website is excellent for discussion.

I recently visited Seoul, Korea to live with my friends who I have known for years over the internet for one month. Basically, we're all rich poker players who have been competitive in the live and online poker scene for three - four years now. They told me to visit and how crazy the night clubbing + girl scene is out here, and being the AFC that I am, I will try anything to get to that shiny bright end of the glory cave. I booked my flight after my most recent poker tournament had ended, and I've been here for two weeks. The first night out they took me to a 'booking club'. Basically, you pay for a big room where a waiter constantly comes in and out of the room giving you a tray of beers, liquid, and fruit plates. The punchline to this clubbing scene is
that the waiters drag girls from the dancefloor + outer club area into your room and sit them down next to you. You feed them drinks, fruit, and begin hitting on them in hopes to get take them home if they like you. They aren't hookers or anything: they're normal girls. In Korea males are a bit more shy so the booking method is designed to eliminate the whole nervousness of approaching a girl. So that being said, I'm asking if anyone here has any experience in the booking club scene here in Seoul. I have spent two weeks here trying effortlessly to pick up a girl, but because I don't speak Korean the conversation goes to sh_it pretty fast. The girls here obviously would prefer a man who speaks Korean, or a white guy, however I don't fit into either category. Weight wise, i'm 6'5'' and 295 lbs, so im a big guy with a noticable yet reasonable sized gut. My buddies here all speak Korean and are white, and they seem to be having great success here with the girls. I have yellow fever pretty bad, and I'm really interested in hitting on some hot chicks and not failing for once. That being said, please discuss fellas.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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azanon

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I think you'd have better success first off if you do something about the weight which will benefit you in the US or Korea. You're big by US standards, so you must look like a giant of a man to those little Korean girls.

If you're going to be going to Korea a lot well then, gosh, time to learn the language right?

We're you just looking to hear what you already know, or did you want some magical formula to circumvent two obviously large obstacles?
 

funnygolem

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azanon said:
I think you'd have better success first off if you do something about the weight which will benefit you in the US or Korea. You're big by US standards, so you must look like a giant of a man to those little Korean girls.

If you're going to be going to Korea a lot well then, gosh, time to learn the language right?

We're you just looking to hear what you already know, or did you want some magical formula to circumvent two obviously large obstacles?
Thank you for taking the time to reply to my issue. I was looking for incite from different perspectives and media sources besides books like 'The Game,' my friends and other online sources. You're spot on, and for some reason I always just figured even if I lost weight it might not be enough. Now that you point it out, I did have a lot better success with girls before I got into poker and weighed about one hundred pounds less than I do now. That being said, thank you for your incite and I will work hard to pass these obstacles. Good luck.

-funnygolem
 

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You're too young to post in this forum son.

Moved to AE.
 
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