"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Picking up in conventions. Good idea?

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Hi everybody,

what do you think about picking up women during conventions that are related to you own interests and hobbies? Any experience with that?

In my particular case I am interested in two types of conventions: The Erotic ones and the ones related to mi interests.

I used the erotic conventions as a screen test to see what women are interested in sex compared to average one, of course most women there go with the boyfriend/husband but there are also women alone and with friends. Back in my days I also used erotic conventions as a **** test. If a woman I am dating is not interested in going with me there than I assume that she is not going to be a good lover and then the countdown begins. My last girlfriend failed the test and couln´t compensate it with having any erotic stuff in her apartment, she even didn´t have a sextoy or a playgirl magazine.

Other conventions I am interested are the more freaky ones like comic conventions, gamer conventions and stuff like that. I have found out that the males there don´t point high in any SMV scale and it is quite easy to be the situational Alpha. The women there are often quite sexy and more easy going as the normal ones, the issue is that they are often too young for my taste. I personally don´t see myself dating a 20 year old woman when I am 40, she should be at least 25.

Any opinions, ideas or experience you want to share?

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Fantastic way to dox yourself noob.

Ideally, cultivate being that bloke who has a flirt everywhere. Calibrate for your audience. Due to the #metoo era, most guys are half stepping. What you deem as being too far isn't likely far enough.
 
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