"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Picking up in conventions. Good idea?

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Hi everybody,

what do you think about picking up women during conventions that are related to you own interests and hobbies? Any experience with that?

In my particular case I am interested in two types of conventions: The Erotic ones and the ones related to mi interests.

I used the erotic conventions as a screen test to see what women are interested in sex compared to average one, of course most women there go with the boyfriend/husband but there are also women alone and with friends. Back in my days I also used erotic conventions as a **** test. If a woman I am dating is not interested in going with me there than I assume that she is not going to be a good lover and then the countdown begins. My last girlfriend failed the test and couln´t compensate it with having any erotic stuff in her apartment, she even didn´t have a sextoy or a playgirl magazine.

Other conventions I am interested are the more freaky ones like comic conventions, gamer conventions and stuff like that. I have found out that the males there don´t point high in any SMV scale and it is quite easy to be the situational Alpha. The women there are often quite sexy and more easy going as the normal ones, the issue is that they are often too young for my taste. I personally don´t see myself dating a 20 year old woman when I am 40, she should be at least 25.

Any opinions, ideas or experience you want to share?

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Fantastic way to dox yourself noob.

Ideally, cultivate being that bloke who has a flirt everywhere. Calibrate for your audience. Due to the #metoo era, most guys are half stepping. What you deem as being too far isn't likely far enough.
 
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