Picking Up in a University

[evolvingnerd]

now, a lot of the information on this site is aimed at picking up the "hot babes"

however, i'm aiming to pick up the more shy girls, who usually sit by themselves or in pairs during lunch
now...can someone point in the right approach to these types of girls?
i'm usually the guy who walks aroudn while eating, appearing to keep busy, always listening to my music btw

i kinda figure i'm not ready \ really interested in picking up the more confident ones who go clubbing and what not yet

 

[chicksrock]

are you following the DJ Bible /DJ Bootcamp?
if not please consult these sources.

1) TALK TALK TALK TALK...that's right build on your social skills and talk to strangers, shopkeepers, whatever the fvck.... you should be able to build a rythem that you can become instantanious friends with anyone you meet.

2) you have got the psychology on this all wrong... you should FIRST approach chicks in clubs.....---> then the uni pickups will be easy as cake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[evolvingnerd]

well see the thing is i don't go clubbing, and nor do i like the prospect of going clubbing
so i'm not all that interested in finding chicks who are
that's why i figure i'd aim straight at the target, ie try to meet ppl like me - quieter ppl

 

[chicksrock]

i kinda figure i'm not ready \ really interested in picking up the more confident ones who go clubbing and what not yet

you are contradicting yourself...

i don't want to be rude or anything...
but you really have to live and breathe the DJ Bible before you start posting which you OBVIOUSLY have not done.

whats wrong with change huh?
have you really tried to go clubbing "?
how do you know whether you don't like it?
if you have been before, have you given it a proper shot?
have you worked on your dancing?
have you tried to enjoy the music at the club?
have you tried to have fun at the club?

you need to CHANGE yourself dude...
I was exactly like you
i thought i am quieter and blah blah blah and hence i don't like clubbing and the girls are too wild for me

YOU ARE WREAKING WITH AFCNESSS

MAN UP BRO
THAT IS WHY YOU CAME TO THIS BOARD.

see the movie fight club
work on this ..
You can do it!

YOU HAVE MADE NO EFFORT..

so stop making excuses and just do it ..live it ...be it ..
it is not EASY
it takes time
doesn't happen over time..

AGAIN i mention you have not read the DJ tips section of this website..
seems to me YOU HAVE DONE JACK ALL RESEARCH...
please read everything absorb everything...
confirm you have done this
then come back onto this board and post your problems..

your problems just don't make sense.... because if you did all of the above you wldn't be talking such AFC nonsense!

 

[squirrels]

You may find that shy girls are a lot more conversation-starved than you'd think and actually have a LOT to say when some bright, energetic, and attractive guy sits down and takes an interest.

That may not be all they're starved for, either.

 

[HuangBei]

You definitely need to read the DJ Bible. Oh yeah, by the way, kino works REALLY well on shy girls. (for kino see DJ bible). I mean...I can't even begin to explain how well it works, especially when you're first meeting them. They can start to fall for you if you do it right. By Jesus, just get started, like these guys said get used to talking to people, using eye contact and a really good idea is to pick up a lot of new skills. You wouldn't believe how amazing this can make you to people. The girl I met that was an artist was supremely impressed at my ability to draw, when I drew her. I gave her the picture too.

So just...well...DO IT!
Peace