"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Picking up HBs on myspace

NotaNewbie

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I know a lot of you guys are against this but.. here's my 2 cents..

I add every local HB i could find on myspace and after they would accept me i would be like "Hey I didn't mean to add you my friend was on my account and He added you because he thinks you're hot but i think he's crazy because you're completely the opposite. Ahahahaha I'm just kidding. My name is [Insert Name here] What's yours?" and after that spit your game and number close.. Its really simple matter fact.. The only thing about me is sometimes I'm not really good at building rapport.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sounds hella canned, but if it works i cant knock it
 
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