"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Picking up girls via instagram
- Thread starter Konada
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
It usually happens like this. You notice a girl likes your pictures regularly, so you make note to like hers when you can. After you guys go back and forth for some time eventually you or her private message each other and you can take it from there.
Actively messenging and chasing girls via social media though? That will get you nowhere fast.
DiegoSantori
Senior Don Juan
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It is better to be chased than to chase on Instagram. You have to treat IG like real life. Just like a woman in real life holding prolonged eye contact with you is an invitation to talk, a woman on IG liking your pictures regularly means that she's given you the green light.