"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Picking up girls via instagram
- Thread starter Konada
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
It usually happens like this. You notice a girl likes your pictures regularly, so you make note to like hers when you can. After you guys go back and forth for some time eventually you or her private message each other and you can take it from there.
Actively messenging and chasing girls via social media though? That will get you nowhere fast.
DiegoSantori
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It is better to be chased than to chase on Instagram. You have to treat IG like real life. Just like a woman in real life holding prolonged eye contact with you is an invitation to talk, a woman on IG liking your pictures regularly means that she's given you the green light.