"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Picking up girls at their work place

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Theres a fast food restaraunt by my house and I always see very attractive girls working here.

The first one that I noticed is this black girl. I'm white and have never been with a girl who isn't and have thought black females were attractive for awhile. I don't know how to approach this situation.

Than theres this girl that just got hired there/I just started noticing recently. She is a very attractive blonde girl, looks to be 18-21. She has a tat thats on her arm and I can't see what it is because her shirt is covering it. I think that next time I go in there I'm going to ask her what it is.

I don't know how to go about getting this girls phone number after that. I was hoping that I would be in there when she was on break and sitting by her, but its unlikely that i'd be in there when she was on break.

I think that going after both of these would be a bad idea, seeing as they work together, and I think that the blonde girl is hotter and more likely to have a chance with anyways.

Any ideas on how I should approach this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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Try one and if that doesn't work out try the other. Who cares if they talk? Action young man! Just do it! Ask for her number. There are tips in the DJ bible. Look under approach.
I have never been with a black woman either. I am thinking that I might have to give it a try at least one time. They have shown interest in the past. I just have to take action. We will see.
 

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Try one and if that doesn't work out try the other. Who cares if they talk? Action young man! Just do it!
I have never been with a black woman either. I am thinking that I might have to give it a try at least one time. They have shown interest in the past. I just have to take action. We will see.
I'm white as ****, my entire family is racist as ****, but I think that black women are beautiful as long as their not fat and/or obnoxious and ghetto and ****. Over the past year or 2 i've started to become more attracted to poc than white girls but haven't been with one yet.
 

dustmuffin

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I'm white as ****, my entire family is racist as ****, but I think that black women are beautiful as long as their not fat and/or obnoxious and ghetto and ****. Over the past year or 2 i've started to become more attracted to poc than white girls but haven't been with one yet.
My problem is that I haven't found one that I am attracted to. Do what you want. Don't let your family hold you back. Sample all ethnicities. It's your life.
 

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I'm white as ****, my entire family is racist as ****, but I think that black women are beautiful as long as their not fat and/or obnoxious and ghetto and ****. Over the past year or 2 i've started to become more attracted to poc than white girls but haven't been with one yet.
It is your birthright to try. You like what you like!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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