"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Picking up girls at their work place

madlib

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Theres a fast food restaraunt by my house and I always see very attractive girls working here.

The first one that I noticed is this black girl. I'm white and have never been with a girl who isn't and have thought black females were attractive for awhile. I don't know how to approach this situation.

Than theres this girl that just got hired there/I just started noticing recently. She is a very attractive blonde girl, looks to be 18-21. She has a tat thats on her arm and I can't see what it is because her shirt is covering it. I think that next time I go in there I'm going to ask her what it is.

I don't know how to go about getting this girls phone number after that. I was hoping that I would be in there when she was on break and sitting by her, but its unlikely that i'd be in there when she was on break.

I think that going after both of these would be a bad idea, seeing as they work together, and I think that the blonde girl is hotter and more likely to have a chance with anyways.

Any ideas on how I should approach this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dustmuffin

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Try one and if that doesn't work out try the other. Who cares if they talk? Action young man! Just do it! Ask for her number. There are tips in the DJ bible. Look under approach.
I have never been with a black woman either. I am thinking that I might have to give it a try at least one time. They have shown interest in the past. I just have to take action. We will see.
 

madlib

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Try one and if that doesn't work out try the other. Who cares if they talk? Action young man! Just do it!
I have never been with a black woman either. I am thinking that I might have to give it a try at least one time. They have shown interest in the past. I just have to take action. We will see.
I'm white as ****, my entire family is racist as ****, but I think that black women are beautiful as long as their not fat and/or obnoxious and ghetto and ****. Over the past year or 2 i've started to become more attracted to poc than white girls but haven't been with one yet.
 

dustmuffin

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I'm white as ****, my entire family is racist as ****, but I think that black women are beautiful as long as their not fat and/or obnoxious and ghetto and ****. Over the past year or 2 i've started to become more attracted to poc than white girls but haven't been with one yet.
My problem is that I haven't found one that I am attracted to. Do what you want. Don't let your family hold you back. Sample all ethnicities. It's your life.
 

EyeBRollin

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I'm white as ****, my entire family is racist as ****, but I think that black women are beautiful as long as their not fat and/or obnoxious and ghetto and ****. Over the past year or 2 i've started to become more attracted to poc than white girls but haven't been with one yet.
It is your birthright to try. You like what you like!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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