“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Picking up girls after 30

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d9930380 said:
As for a girl dropping a guy once she finds his true age. I know a guy this happens to too however he "acts" and "looks" young. If you pull a girl who thinks you are older but still good-looking then you won't have this happen as much. Basically she's pissed because he's pretending to be something he's not, no different than him telling her any other lie.
If the guy was giving her the sex of her life...I bet she would have clinged to his **** like a koala on a branch. Regardless of his age.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hitman10000 said:
I think you can still pull in younger women from early to mid 20s (23 years+) if you are looking for someone younger. I'm in my late 20s and I'm dating a girl in her early 20s. My message to guys who are in their mid-late 20s is to seriously start thinking about what partner you want in your life. I'm not saying you can't pull at 30, but the women who are available and SANE start thinning out and all you get is leftover women who don't have all their marbles in.
I agree with this. For me, one of the problems i'd have now as an older guy would be just tolerating a really young women (think 18-23), mentally. If she's not in the same stage of life as me, I could see how that could really be a problem as far as a relationship would go. So its not so much can you still catch that really young one, but rather would you even want to? (besides just for a fun f***).
 

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Latinoman - Offcourse sex matters but that's a given. I'm not saying it has anything to do with age, just that he's "pretending" to be something he's not. No different if he pretended to be a lawyer when really he was an unemployed bum.
 

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For a guy around 30, for me the ideal age is around 25. There are still some good girls left at that age and they are out of college and not much different when it comes to their stage in life plus girls start to really hit the wall around 30.
 

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d9930380 said:
For a guy around 30, for me the ideal age is around 25. There are still some good girls left at that age and they are out of college and not much different when it comes to their stage in life plus girls start to really hit the wall around 30.
Correct on each point sir :up:

Although I slightly disagree about the "good girl" comment unless you're reffering to her optimism in the bedroom?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PleasureKing said:
hey guys, is it just me, or did xrayman get banned?
Sure seems that way. Strange... :confused:
 
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