"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Picking up girls after 30

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d9930380 said:
As for a girl dropping a guy once she finds his true age. I know a guy this happens to too however he "acts" and "looks" young. If you pull a girl who thinks you are older but still good-looking then you won't have this happen as much. Basically she's pissed because he's pretending to be something he's not, no different than him telling her any other lie.
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If the guy was giving her the sex of her life...I bet she would have clinged to his **** like a koala on a branch. Regardless of his age.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hitman10000 said:
I think you can still pull in younger women from early to mid 20s (23 years+) if you are looking for someone younger. I'm in my late 20s and I'm dating a girl in her early 20s. My message to guys who are in their mid-late 20s is to seriously start thinking about what partner you want in your life. I'm not saying you can't pull at 30, but the women who are available and SANE start thinning out and all you get is leftover women who don't have all their marbles in.
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I agree with this. For me, one of the problems i'd have now as an older guy would be just tolerating a really young women (think 18-23), mentally. If she's not in the same stage of life as me, I could see how that could really be a problem as far as a relationship would go. So its not so much can you still catch that really young one, but rather would you even want to? (besides just for a fun f***).
 
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Latinoman - Offcourse sex matters but that's a given. I'm not saying it has anything to do with age, just that he's "pretending" to be something he's not. No different if he pretended to be a lawyer when really he was an unemployed bum.
 
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For a guy around 30, for me the ideal age is around 25. There are still some good girls left at that age and they are out of college and not much different when it comes to their stage in life plus girls start to really hit the wall around 30.
 
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d9930380 said:
For a guy around 30, for me the ideal age is around 25. There are still some good girls left at that age and they are out of college and not much different when it comes to their stage in life plus girls start to really hit the wall around 30.
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Correct on each point sir :up:

Although I slightly disagree about the "good girl" comment unless you're reffering to her optimism in the bedroom?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PleasureKing said:
hey guys, is it just me, or did xrayman get banned?
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Sure seems that way. Strange... :confused:
 
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