"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Picking up girl at her job?

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I went up to this girl and she was basically asking me questions like where i live and if i got a girlfriend etc.. all these questions and wanted my number afterwards and said she would find me a nice job but didnt call me. I know you basically got to go make the move yourself. How do i go about this and ask her out myself just try to flirt towards end of day invite her for drink?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wait....who was she slash what capacity are we talking about here? I cant tell if you cold approached a female, or if this was a head hunter type, and she was sweet talking you trying to make sure you would allow her to place you (and make $)
 
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