"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Picking up girl at her job?

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I went up to this girl and she was basically asking me questions like where i live and if i got a girlfriend etc.. all these questions and wanted my number afterwards and said she would find me a nice job but didnt call me. I know you basically got to go make the move yourself. How do i go about this and ask her out myself just try to flirt towards end of day invite her for drink?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wait....who was she slash what capacity are we talking about here? I cant tell if you cold approached a female, or if this was a head hunter type, and she was sweet talking you trying to make sure you would allow her to place you (and make $)
 
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