“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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picking up customers in the lingerie dept of my store

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i was just wondering: is there any way to talk to girls in the lingerie dept of hte store i work at? i know i cant just go up to them and say hi can i help you because ill probably get my a*ss beat (which would be kinda funny lol) but wat would be a good approach? any thoughts? without sounding like a pervert or getting in trouble?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The fact you're in the lingerie department in the first place is a bit weird.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
The fact you're in the lingerie department in the first place is a bit weird.
sad, but true
 

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hey i tried this once!

i was in the lingerie dept of a clothes store and i approached an hb shopping for panties or something...she was a hot one, and at that time it was when i was just trying to get over my fears of cold approaching and purposely doing very ballsy stuff.

actually, i posted about it here:
Originally posted by h2o
i was helping my mom with shopping today, and while in a dept. store i noticed this cutie in the lingerie isle. she was actually on the phone and turned away from me, looking at panties. haha, i was so nervous.

me: hey (smiled) ...do you think you could call them back?
her: (looked at me, smiled...probably wondering who the **** is this guy...and ended her phone call)
me: hey, i don't usually do this, but...
her: (started cracking up)
me: how old are you? (i didn't want to be approaching a highschooler...i felt awkward enough already)
her: 21
me: ok...what's your name?
her: blah
me: my name is h2o
(i help her pronounce it)
me: so...are you single?
her: well, i'm sort of seeing someone
her: are you from raleigh?
me: yeah, i go to (name of my school)
her: yeah i go to (name of her school), but i hang here sometimes
me: are you gonna be around for the summer?
her: yeah, i'm taking a class at (name of other school)
me: well, why don't you give me your number and maybe we'll hang out sometime
her: ah, ok...it's ###-###-####
me: ok, cool, i'll see ya then
her: hahaha, ok, let me get back to this (lingerie)

i was really nervous during that whole approach, there was no convo, it was so choppy. i mean, wtf am i supposed to talk about in a lingerie isle? my god, i'd never done something like that before...has anyone tried anything like that? i mean, it's probably a great place to meet hot girls, but awkward? how the f**k do you make rapport? i don't know if i would do that again, though i'd probably do better next time.

and why the hell do girls who aren't single give me their numbers? just to get rid of me? i'd rather get rejected than get a useless number. anybody have a similar experience?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showth...15&perpage=20&highlight=lingerie&pagenumber=2

i never called her because that approach journal was just to get over my fears mainly...and damn straight i accomplished that.

in retrospect, there's tons of girls in other places, so unless you're trying to to test your confidence, i don't think it's a good idea. although, if i ever was to try it again, a real ballsy thing to say would be like, take a lingerie item and hold it in front of her, and just be like "i think this would look good on you,"

at this point where i have completely conquered my fears, i can easily see myself doing that, but it would just be for fun, unless she was already checking me out (but still, why the heck would i be there in the first place).

only for fun and thrills if ever again.

lol
 

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Originally posted by la-migra-is-after-me
i was just wondering: is there any way to talk to girls in the lingerie dept of hte store i work at? i know i cant just go up to them and say hi can i help you because ill probably get my a*ss beat (which would be kinda funny lol) but wat would be a good approach? any thoughts?
This might be a bit cumbersome, but it is much better than nothing.
Get a notebook with a pad. Got into the store and pretend that you are writing something down... at least you will not look very suspicious. If sombody ask you "Can I help you?" well, just say "No thanks, I am fine" :)
Move around your targets and write something down in your notebook if you want to disslove suspicions.
Finally aim on a target. Move close, don't put down your notebook! "Excuse, do you mind if I ask you a question?"
Which is extremely polite and seeing a nobook in from of you, she simply assumes you are ... doing some market reserach.
She says "sure, I don't.. go ahead..". You immediately out down your notebook and go for a light question. Ask something like this " What is your favorite color?"
Whatever she says follow up " ...Your name?" ...then introduce yourself... you may go for "So..Mary.. Do you like _Black_ coffee?"
and after she answer invite her to share a cup of it with you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hahah

nah the reason im there is b/c i WORK there and i sometimes i see cute ladies shoppping thhere.......in that dept hahaha
 
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