pimp in training
Don Juan
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any tips on picking up classmates? what if you get rejected, but you still have to see them everyday? nothing to worry about?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
picking up classmates?
- Thread starter pimp in training
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Even when rejected I never had much of a problem with them.
Just don't be the nice guy that acts like a friend to get into her pants. That is when you usually lose that girl as a friend because she found out your true identity.
You should be fine if done properly. I asked out 4 classmates in one week and no serious repurcussions came about. Hell afterward I became a good friend with a couple of the girls.
Good luck.
Just don't be the nice guy that acts like a friend to get into her pants. That is when you usually lose that girl as a friend because she found out your true identity.
You should be fine if done properly. I asked out 4 classmates in one week and no serious repurcussions came about. Hell afterward I became a good friend with a couple of the girls.
Good luck.
rhsarrow17
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That is pretty inspiring. I think I've been holding out, wanting to flirt a little more and up her IL before suggesting anything like a date. Maybe I'll set something up soon.
I wouldn't worry about being rejected. Even if you are rejected it's ok as long as you don't make a big deal about it. I've been rejected by a few classmates, but if it happens I just joke with them and treat them like everyone else. It only really gets akward if you show you're angry at them, but if you just show that you're indifferent things are fine.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.