I'd like to poll everybody here out of curiousity, and ask what your motivation is in terms of picking up women. There seem to be a lot of people here looking for advice on meeting and attracting women so that they can find an ideal partner, somebody to hang out with and have sex with, and be a couple. Then there seems to be another crowd concerned more with simply picking up one woman after another. Whether they actually call themselves pick up artists or not, this type seems to be interested in going out to bars/clubs and bringing women back to f***.
I'm not really interested in hot women - I see hotness as basically a requirement, but for me to be interested in somebody, they have to be first hot, but then also interesting and cool. And I never have sex with somebody without going out with them at least a couple times (the idea grosses me out) so these are the only women i f***. That means I don't have sex much, but I do sometimes, and that's really quite fine with me. Among my friends, I think I am fairly normal, but I'm curious as to whether that's normal here on this forum - i think perhaps it's not?
Also, for a bit of personal advice if you care to contribute, last night I was on a barcrawl with people from my major. There was this one cute girl there who I had basically come specifically for (i'd met her once before, she and I are a rare breed - good looking physics majors). So we were basically hanging on each other all night, and I took her off to the side and asked her whether she'd be around for the summer - I'm doing research here at my Uni, but it turns out she is going out to work at an infrared observatory in another state. So I told her that was cool, told her I'd see her when she gets back, and gave her just one kiss. So my question is, I'm wondering if anybody has bright ideas on how to maximize my chances for next semester. I didn't get her number, cuz what's the point (we've just got finals left, school's out in 10 days) so I don't plan on calling her. Wondering if I should facebook friend her, or just let her think on it with no positive reinforcement... I'll probably do the latter.
I'm not really interested in hot women - I see hotness as basically a requirement, but for me to be interested in somebody, they have to be first hot, but then also interesting and cool. And I never have sex with somebody without going out with them at least a couple times (the idea grosses me out) so these are the only women i f***. That means I don't have sex much, but I do sometimes, and that's really quite fine with me. Among my friends, I think I am fairly normal, but I'm curious as to whether that's normal here on this forum - i think perhaps it's not?
Also, for a bit of personal advice if you care to contribute, last night I was on a barcrawl with people from my major. There was this one cute girl there who I had basically come specifically for (i'd met her once before, she and I are a rare breed - good looking physics majors). So we were basically hanging on each other all night, and I took her off to the side and asked her whether she'd be around for the summer - I'm doing research here at my Uni, but it turns out she is going out to work at an infrared observatory in another state. So I told her that was cool, told her I'd see her when she gets back, and gave her just one kiss. So my question is, I'm wondering if anybody has bright ideas on how to maximize my chances for next semester. I didn't get her number, cuz what's the point (we've just got finals left, school's out in 10 days) so I don't plan on calling her. Wondering if I should facebook friend her, or just let her think on it with no positive reinforcement... I'll probably do the latter.