"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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picking up at the gym

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I am just wondering if anyone out there has good advise for picking up at the gym. There are often times when i know a girl is looking at me from across the gym, but need a reason to approach without being creepy. Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kidd

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Are you at the gym to work out or to pickup girls?
 

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I actually did this on friday but not at my main gym -- worked out at another location just for that reason. I sat at a bench next to hers, said hi and asked her a few questions, we talked -- mainly about working out and social stuff, kept it light -- and then #closed.

I'm a serious lifter and prefer to keep convos down to a minimum at my main gym, although i'll probably game this one girl if i see her tomorrow.
 

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oh, to answer your question -- just ask her how she likes the gym or what "day" she's on (cardio, legs, etc.) then introduce yourself. just make sure she's not out of breath or right about to start her next set.
 

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I see the best looking HB's in the gym, so definitely a good place to pick up, after your own workout offcourse.

As she just finishes a set walk up and and say:
"Can I ask you a question?"
If she says yes, say: "What would you recommand for training the abs, triceps, biceps, etc.?"

I do this all the time in the gym and it works great for starting the convo, it's important you don't give a rats ass about giving her the: i wanna pick you up vibe. Just dont care what she thinks.

Now if you want to pour in some C+F, ask her if she can demonstrate the training movement. I hope you'll get the picture, from here on out you can really bust her balls on anything,

example: (this one is my favourite) As she is really trying her best to help you, by showing the set, as she finishes tell her: "mmm interesting, but now I SEE..pause.. I really dont need your help" I get smacked on the arm (which we all know is good) all the time doing this one. You could bust her more by imitating her and do the set like your a crazy old man who just drank too much.

If she shows you any arm training excersizes and while she is working the set tell her:"I can see your good with your hands" pause and smile. She'll know what you mean.

Only approach girls in the gym if you had some good EC, and offcourse if she has open BL. Else chances are quitte high she doesn't want to be bothered by you and you'll be burned.

Also if you ask her for some recommandations and she answers she herself is inexperienced tell her: "Yeah now you mention it I can see that by looking at that body of yours"

....perform this move on an insecure young women and make her day...

Ok forget that last part, that Neghit will get you a hit in the face. Most HB's actually have experience in the gym (how do you think they get a body like that). But might it occur tell her: "I know quitte a lot on other areas..pause..in the gym, let me show you some moves"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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