Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Picking her up?

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What do you guys think about picking a girl up before a date? By date I mean a casual, first date....like lunch or something.

I would really prefer to just have the girl meet me there...that way I don't have to worry about girls living across the damn city, the extra gas, drawn out conversations in the car....plus I can hug her when I first see her :)

But many girls my age have transportation issues. Do you think that picking her up is a bad idea? I really wouldn't like to...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If she has a car, let her meet you. If she doesn't, I guess you're going to have to pick her up, but you'll be her transportation throughout your relationship with her.
 
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Mavrick said:
If she has a car, let her meet you. If she doesn't, I guess you're going to have to pick her up, but you'll be her transportation throughout your relationship with her.
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Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of!! haha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ARrocket said:
Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of!! haha
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If you can disqualify her correctly and show that you are something to be had, she'll find a way to be with you.
 
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I always get the date to meet me there.

If your date can't do it because of transportation issues, then you've just dodged a bullet because that girl is a bum.
 
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Luveno said:
I always get the date to meet me there.

If your date can't do it because of transportation issues, then you've just dodged a bullet because that girl is a bum.
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Not if she's 17 ;)
 
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OFCOURSE you want to pick her up. That increases the chance of getting laid because you have to drop her off. And then get invited in unless you have no game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Vlad the Impaler said:
OFCOURSE you want to pick her up. That increases the chance of getting laid because you have to drop her off. And then get invited in unless you have no game.
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True, but a lot live with their parents...
 
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Consider your logistics...

If your goal is the have sex at the end of the date, then you definetely want to pick her up, or have her meet you at your house.

However, if you feel that you need to build more comfort with her, then have her meet you there.

Logistics is what gets your laid, game only helps you not **** it up.
 
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Consider your logistics...

If your goal is the have sex at the end of the date, then you definetely want to pick her up, or have her meet you at your house.

However, if you feel that you need to build more comfort with her, then have her meet you there.

Logistics is what gets your laid, game only helps you not **** it up.
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haha idk about that last part, but you make sense.
 
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Yeah, I agree w/ Johnny, Outside of the whole 'logistics is what gets you laid' part. And it's really a case-by-case thing, but if she has a car/ride, you sure as hell shouldn't be doing all the driving.
 
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