"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Picking her up?

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What do you guys think about picking a girl up before a date? By date I mean a casual, first date....like lunch or something.

I would really prefer to just have the girl meet me there...that way I don't have to worry about girls living across the damn city, the extra gas, drawn out conversations in the car....plus I can hug her when I first see her :)

But many girls my age have transportation issues. Do you think that picking her up is a bad idea? I really wouldn't like to...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If she has a car, let her meet you. If she doesn't, I guess you're going to have to pick her up, but you'll be her transportation throughout your relationship with her.
 
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Mavrick said:
If she has a car, let her meet you. If she doesn't, I guess you're going to have to pick her up, but you'll be her transportation throughout your relationship with her.
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Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of!! haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ARrocket said:
Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of!! haha
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If you can disqualify her correctly and show that you are something to be had, she'll find a way to be with you.
 
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I always get the date to meet me there.

If your date can't do it because of transportation issues, then you've just dodged a bullet because that girl is a bum.
 
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Luveno said:
I always get the date to meet me there.

If your date can't do it because of transportation issues, then you've just dodged a bullet because that girl is a bum.
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Not if she's 17 ;)
 
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OFCOURSE you want to pick her up. That increases the chance of getting laid because you have to drop her off. And then get invited in unless you have no game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vlad the Impaler said:
OFCOURSE you want to pick her up. That increases the chance of getting laid because you have to drop her off. And then get invited in unless you have no game.
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True, but a lot live with their parents...
 
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Consider your logistics...

If your goal is the have sex at the end of the date, then you definetely want to pick her up, or have her meet you at your house.

However, if you feel that you need to build more comfort with her, then have her meet you there.

Logistics is what gets your laid, game only helps you not **** it up.
 
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Consider your logistics...

If your goal is the have sex at the end of the date, then you definetely want to pick her up, or have her meet you at your house.

However, if you feel that you need to build more comfort with her, then have her meet you there.

Logistics is what gets your laid, game only helps you not **** it up.
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haha idk about that last part, but you make sense.
 
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Yeah, I agree w/ Johnny, Outside of the whole 'logistics is what gets you laid' part. And it's really a case-by-case thing, but if she has a car/ride, you sure as hell shouldn't be doing all the driving.
 
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