"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Picked up an HB 9.5 how to proceed to contact...

Slick101

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..Really dont want to mess this one up...

Saw her at the W hotel ALONE, in the city, Approached while she was walking toward me and went with the Classic BADBOY LIFESTYLE LINE..

I went Direct and looked the part showed her my confident self... (how she is the most beautiful woman in the place and how I want to get to know her more)

She commented my approach and stated how awesome it was.

We spoke for 30 min about her life and my life and avoided all the small talk BS.

I introduced her to my friends and continued to mingle with one another. She is beautiful and very spiritual, told me how sex is her fav thing.

She was interested highly, and so was I, I exchanged phone numbers with her and told her i'de get in contact with her soon.

A hug and goodbye..

NOW..

1) She lives alone in NYC moved from another state
2) she is an HB 9.5 and prob has millions of guys hitting on her

Its been 3 days I didnt contact her...

I want to know how to proceed to text OR call to get her interested again and on meetup..

Please help :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maximus Rex

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Call her. Fluff talk. Ask her when she's having dinner. If for example she says 8:30, tell her to meet you at the Coffee Shop at Union Sq. around 9:30, 10PM. Good luck.
 

d!ckmojo

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Dude, if you really were such a bad boy, why did you do the cookie cutter strat and follow society's rules by waiting 3 days before calling her? If she made it clear that she wants to bang, and if you're an uninhibited bad boy, you wouldn't have waited 3 days to get in contact with her again.

Unless you can make it seem that you really were too busy ****ing other hot chicks and then you suddenly remembered about her 3 days l8r.

But that's pretty tricky to pull off when you clearly are super into her. Women can smell that ****, they can sense it in your body language. No the only way to stay congruent is to forget all you idolisation of her and just be raw animalistic sex incarnate, without any romantic emotion whatsoever.
 

BigJimbo

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Europe? Some of you need to dig yourselves out of Kansas. Seriously. Europe IS NOT a culture. Comparing Southern Russia to Norway is like comparing Afghanistan to Santa Monica.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7Nx-09onxs&feature=relmfu
Debating whether or not kidnapping young virginal girls to be your bride is right or wrong. Yes, this part of Russia is in Europe. Yes, many men in this part of Europe kidnap young virginal girls. Yes, it is part of the culture.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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