"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Picked up an HB 9.5 how to proceed to contact...

Slick101

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..Really dont want to mess this one up...

Saw her at the W hotel ALONE, in the city, Approached while she was walking toward me and went with the Classic BADBOY LIFESTYLE LINE..

I went Direct and looked the part showed her my confident self... (how she is the most beautiful woman in the place and how I want to get to know her more)

She commented my approach and stated how awesome it was.

We spoke for 30 min about her life and my life and avoided all the small talk BS.

I introduced her to my friends and continued to mingle with one another. She is beautiful and very spiritual, told me how sex is her fav thing.

She was interested highly, and so was I, I exchanged phone numbers with her and told her i'de get in contact with her soon.

A hug and goodbye..

NOW..

1) She lives alone in NYC moved from another state
2) she is an HB 9.5 and prob has millions of guys hitting on her

Its been 3 days I didnt contact her...

I want to know how to proceed to text OR call to get her interested again and on meetup..

Please help :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maximus Rex

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Call her. Fluff talk. Ask her when she's having dinner. If for example she says 8:30, tell her to meet you at the Coffee Shop at Union Sq. around 9:30, 10PM. Good luck.
 

d!ckmojo

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Dude, if you really were such a bad boy, why did you do the cookie cutter strat and follow society's rules by waiting 3 days before calling her? If she made it clear that she wants to bang, and if you're an uninhibited bad boy, you wouldn't have waited 3 days to get in contact with her again.

Unless you can make it seem that you really were too busy ****ing other hot chicks and then you suddenly remembered about her 3 days l8r.

But that's pretty tricky to pull off when you clearly are super into her. Women can smell that ****, they can sense it in your body language. No the only way to stay congruent is to forget all you idolisation of her and just be raw animalistic sex incarnate, without any romantic emotion whatsoever.
 

BigJimbo

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Europe? Some of you need to dig yourselves out of Kansas. Seriously. Europe IS NOT a culture. Comparing Southern Russia to Norway is like comparing Afghanistan to Santa Monica.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7Nx-09onxs&feature=relmfu
Debating whether or not kidnapping young virginal girls to be your bride is right or wrong. Yes, this part of Russia is in Europe. Yes, many men in this part of Europe kidnap young virginal girls. Yes, it is part of the culture.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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