"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pick up lines=great ice breakers

Alittude

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Whenever I use a pick up line I always do it with a smile and the girl always knows im joking and they giggle and its a really great way to start to chat but the line has to be funny. I like this one"Do you raise chikens because you sure did raise my ****". Anyone else think they are good to start conversations?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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john_x

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f

you:* fat penguin*
her:*what*
you:* oh nothing, i just wonted somthing to break the ice with
 

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Re: f

Originally posted by john_x
you:* fat penguin*
her:*what*
you:* oh nothing, i just wonted somthing to break the ice with
THATS NICE
I'LL USE IT!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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08aisaac

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Pick up lines are not the best thing in the world. Hi usually works and a big grin. And some chatting. Or wave and then walk up and start talking.
 
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