"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pick up lines=great ice breakers

Alittude

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Whenever I use a pick up line I always do it with a smile and the girl always knows im joking and they giggle and its a really great way to start to chat but the line has to be funny. I like this one"Do you raise chikens because you sure did raise my ****". Anyone else think they are good to start conversations?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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john_x

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f

you:* fat penguin*
her:*what*
you:* oh nothing, i just wonted somthing to break the ice with
 

Anomalous

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Re: f

Originally posted by john_x
you:* fat penguin*
her:*what*
you:* oh nothing, i just wonted somthing to break the ice with
THATS NICE
I'LL USE IT!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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08aisaac

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Pick up lines are not the best thing in the world. Hi usually works and a big grin. And some chatting. Or wave and then walk up and start talking.
 
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