Besides "The Game" What are some good PU books that are worth reading. Im afraid that whatever is the "The Game" I can find anywhere on the internet. Tell me what you think and refer some books that are worth while.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Pick-Up Books
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You've probably heard them mentioned around the forum plenty of times already but incase you haven't definitely pick up...
48 Laws of Power
The Art of Seduction
The Manipulated Man
They'll all give you great advice and ideas to improve upon your game.
48 Laws of Power
The Art of Seduction
The Manipulated Man
They'll all give you great advice and ideas to improve upon your game.
wjh
Master Don Juan
I think some books are better for different things.
For example, Paul Janka's ebook was only about 20 pages but in my opinion well written and worth checking out. He doesn't give you the most enlightening tools in the world but he lays out a simple system that can help someone who isn't very handicapped (so to speak). His book also, I'm sure not knowingly to him, provides insight into the mindset of someone that exacts this specific system.
Some of the David DeAngelo stuff is OK but it's more motivational speaker type of stuff. In fact I think most Pick Up books smell of motivational speaker stink. It's OK for a quick ego boost but really I got the most out of The Book of Pook that you can find here on SS.
At the end of the day it really depends on where you are in your life and what you want. Then and only then can you aim in a specific direction. These books aren't magic and some only serve to make you hear what you want to hear. Things like "all you have to do is X and Y and she'll be all over you" are typically cop outs for grabbing your balls and growing up. Tricks are interesting to HB7+ for a little while but if you have no character you're just wasting your time. Sure you might get laid here or there, but you'll ultimately get way more out of this whole seduction thing if you look within yourself and do what you need to do to make your life what you really want. It takes a certain amount of courage and conviction to look in the mirror and say "wow, I don't like what I see, but damnit i'm going to do something about it and have the most fun possible while I'm still breathing."
These books only offer you so much.
Wisdom, guidance, etc. Those things are what can turn a boring PUA trickster into a great man. A man that people look up to and is respected. That to me is by far the bigger and better goal.
For example, Paul Janka's ebook was only about 20 pages but in my opinion well written and worth checking out. He doesn't give you the most enlightening tools in the world but he lays out a simple system that can help someone who isn't very handicapped (so to speak). His book also, I'm sure not knowingly to him, provides insight into the mindset of someone that exacts this specific system.
Some of the David DeAngelo stuff is OK but it's more motivational speaker type of stuff. In fact I think most Pick Up books smell of motivational speaker stink. It's OK for a quick ego boost but really I got the most out of The Book of Pook that you can find here on SS.
At the end of the day it really depends on where you are in your life and what you want. Then and only then can you aim in a specific direction. These books aren't magic and some only serve to make you hear what you want to hear. Things like "all you have to do is X and Y and she'll be all over you" are typically cop outs for grabbing your balls and growing up. Tricks are interesting to HB7+ for a little while but if you have no character you're just wasting your time. Sure you might get laid here or there, but you'll ultimately get way more out of this whole seduction thing if you look within yourself and do what you need to do to make your life what you really want. It takes a certain amount of courage and conviction to look in the mirror and say "wow, I don't like what I see, but damnit i'm going to do something about it and have the most fun possible while I'm still breathing."
These books only offer you so much.
Wisdom, guidance, etc. Those things are what can turn a boring PUA trickster into a great man. A man that people look up to and is respected. That to me is by far the bigger and better goal.
WC2
Master Don Juan
I'm not a big fan of pickup books, but there is 1 book that I read all the time when dealing with women.
The Way of the Superior Man
This book teaches you how to handle women, relationships, and much more. It's a great self improvement book packed with plenty of insight on how women really work (and he knows what he's talking about trust me)
The Way of the Superior Man
This book teaches you how to handle women, relationships, and much more. It's a great self improvement book packed with plenty of insight on how women really work (and he knows what he's talking about trust me)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wjh
Master Don Juan
who wrote that wc2?
wjh
Master Don Juan
I had some time to kill so I stopped by a book store and picked up the book. So far it looks pretty damn powerful.WC2 said:I'm not a big fan of pickup books, but there is 1 book that I read all the time when dealing with women.
The Way of the Superior Man
This book teaches you how to handle women, relationships, and much more. It's a great self improvement book packed with plenty of insight on how women really work (and he knows what he's talking about trust me)
Written by David Deida.
Subtitle: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
1. David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating [ for some inner game and some elementar things ]
2. Mystery & Lovedrop - Venusian Arts Handbook [ great one , worth reading 20 times ]
Than get some tapes , videos , seminairs by Mystery , DeAngelo , Neil Strauss ( annihilation method ) .
This NO DOUBT will help you improve your game alot .
But there is no book that is going to make your game better if you dont practice that game .
2. Mystery & Lovedrop - Venusian Arts Handbook [ great one , worth reading 20 times ]
Than get some tapes , videos , seminairs by Mystery , DeAngelo , Neil Strauss ( annihilation method ) .
This NO DOUBT will help you improve your game alot .
But there is no book that is going to make your game better if you dont practice that game .
http://www.themysterymethod.com/com...id,2/option,com_virtuemart/Itemid,1/vmcchk,1/
Magic bullet is truly the only book you need with maybe the RSD blueprint.
Magic bullet is truly the only book you need with maybe the RSD blueprint.
"When I ordered this book, I expected a slightly updated version of Venusian Arts Handbook. I was wrong. The way Savoy organized the book is fantastic, and the book is incredibly dense with material. Since I ordered it I've read it three times through with tons of quick readings over specific chapters I had questions about after that particular night's sarge. I highly recommend it."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's not out yetEFFORT said:The blueprint is all you need
DVD program was just released....yeah its not a "book" but better than wasting your time with any of that other mess.Stéphane said:It's not out yet
Are you serious man, it costs $600!!!!!!!!!!EFFORT said:DVD program was just released....yeah its not a "book" but better than wasting your time with any of that other mess.
And at 20 dvd's long, even if it does come out on torrent I won't be able to download all of it.