"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Besides "The Game" What are some good PU books that are worth reading. Im afraid that whatever is the "The Game" I can find anywhere on the internet. Tell me what you think and refer some books that are worth while.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You've probably heard them mentioned around the forum plenty of times already but incase you haven't definitely pick up...

48 Laws of Power

The Art of Seduction

The Manipulated Man

They'll all give you great advice and ideas to improve upon your game.
 

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I think some books are better for different things.

For example, Paul Janka's ebook was only about 20 pages but in my opinion well written and worth checking out. He doesn't give you the most enlightening tools in the world but he lays out a simple system that can help someone who isn't very handicapped (so to speak). His book also, I'm sure not knowingly to him, provides insight into the mindset of someone that exacts this specific system.

Some of the David DeAngelo stuff is OK but it's more motivational speaker type of stuff. In fact I think most Pick Up books smell of motivational speaker stink. It's OK for a quick ego boost but really I got the most out of The Book of Pook that you can find here on SS.

At the end of the day it really depends on where you are in your life and what you want. Then and only then can you aim in a specific direction. These books aren't magic and some only serve to make you hear what you want to hear. Things like "all you have to do is X and Y and she'll be all over you" are typically cop outs for grabbing your balls and growing up. Tricks are interesting to HB7+ for a little while but if you have no character you're just wasting your time. Sure you might get laid here or there, but you'll ultimately get way more out of this whole seduction thing if you look within yourself and do what you need to do to make your life what you really want. It takes a certain amount of courage and conviction to look in the mirror and say "wow, I don't like what I see, but damnit i'm going to do something about it and have the most fun possible while I'm still breathing."

These books only offer you so much.

Wisdom, guidance, etc. Those things are what can turn a boring PUA trickster into a great man. A man that people look up to and is respected. That to me is by far the bigger and better goal.
 

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I'm not a big fan of pickup books, but there is 1 book that I read all the time when dealing with women.

The Way of the Superior Man

This book teaches you how to handle women, relationships, and much more. It's a great self improvement book packed with plenty of insight on how women really work (and he knows what he's talking about trust me)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WC2 said:
I'm not a big fan of pickup books, but there is 1 book that I read all the time when dealing with women.

The Way of the Superior Man

This book teaches you how to handle women, relationships, and much more. It's a great self improvement book packed with plenty of insight on how women really work (and he knows what he's talking about trust me)
I had some time to kill so I stopped by a book store and picked up the book. So far it looks pretty damn powerful.

Written by David Deida.

Subtitle: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire
 

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1. David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating [ for some inner game and some elementar things ]

2. Mystery & Lovedrop - Venusian Arts Handbook [ great one , worth reading 20 times ]

Than get some tapes , videos , seminairs by Mystery , DeAngelo , Neil Strauss ( annihilation method ) .

This NO DOUBT will help you improve your game alot .
But there is no book that is going to make your game better if you dont practice that game .
 

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http://www.themysterymethod.com/com...id,2/option,com_virtuemart/Itemid,1/vmcchk,1/

Magic bullet is truly the only book you need with maybe the RSD blueprint.

"When I ordered this book, I expected a slightly updated version of Venusian Arts Handbook. I was wrong. The way Savoy organized the book is fantastic, and the book is incredibly dense with material. Since I ordered it I've read it three times through with tons of quick readings over specific chapters I had questions about after that particular night's sarge. I highly recommend it."
 

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The blueprint is all you need
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stéphane said:
It's not out yet
DVD program was just released....yeah its not a "book" but better than wasting your time with any of that other mess.
 

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EFFORT said:
DVD program was just released....yeah its not a "book" but better than wasting your time with any of that other mess.
Are you serious man, it costs $600!!!!!!!!!!
And at 20 dvd's long, even if it does come out on torrent I won't be able to download all of it.
 
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