pick up at parties and isolating

[Alex DeLarge]

I'm having an extremely hard time doing this lately. I have girls with sky high interest in me at a party, but then I'll try to isolate by saying something like "Hey wanna go for a walk?" and it usually doesn't work. I think they might know what's up.

Does anyone have any tips on this? It's really the only part of my game that's lacking right now.

 

[Chamber36]

Hah! "hey wanna go for a walk" used to work about 4 years ago. I think every girl over 18 has heard that line once or twice already, and accepted.

It can work, but it's such an easy line.

If you want to use that line make sure you let the tension build up high and ask it during the climax. Make her wait for it.

 

[Lexington]

I don't think the attraction level is "sky high" if she doesn't want to be isolated. Girls know exactly what's up. They're not stupid. If they're decently attractive there's a good chance they've been getting hit on since they were 14. If they're horny, they'll gladly give it up.

The fact that you seem to be trying to hide your agenda tells me that you might be doing it wrong. Don't try to hide your intentions. If it's your aim to plow her, let her know it. You don't communicate it with words but you demonstrate it through eye contact, voice tone, touching her etc.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I don't think the attraction level is "sky high" if she doesn't want to be isolated. Girls know exactly what's up. They're not stupid. If they're decently attractive there's a good chance they've been getting hit on since they were 14. If they're horny, they'll gladly give it up.

The fact that you seem to be trying to hide your agenda tells me that you might be doing it wrong. Don't try to hide your intentions. If it's your aim to plow her, let her know it. You don't communicate it with words but you demonstrate it through eye contact, voice tone, touching her etc.

That's what I've been doing and I get IOIs back all the time.. For instance, last night I was with this girl at a party. I got lots of eye contact from her, kino'd etc.. She seemed really into me, but I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk and she politely said "no" but she did give me her number. My phone wasn't working so I had her write it down for me.

I was even teasing her a bit and noticed her qualifying herself to me. She also said at one point "You know, you're pretty good looking. I bet you could bang any girl you want"

 

[Aaron B]

don't ask

lead

grab her hand and take her with you

also there's no way this is the "only part of your game that is lacking" if you've never inserted your penis into a vagina

no offense intended

 

[Alex DeLarge]

don't ask

lead

grab her hand and take her with you

also there's no way this is the "only part of your game that is lacking" if you've never inserted your penis into a vagina

no offense intended

True, well I'm a great conversationalist and can create attraction no problem.. It's just escalating that holds me back right now. I like what you said here though, it's so basic. I was thinking "Maybe I can go to the store with her down the street, maybe I can show her a cool spot by the river.." etc.

I guess by doing this, I'm putting the chick on a pedestal. I'm thinking up excuses to be alone with her when I don't have to. I just have to lead her to where I want.

 

[Chamber36]

don't ask

lead

grab her hand and take her with you

I will have to agree. I can tell you that I got a date with the girl I mentioned, and she was acting stuck-up the whole entire time. I let her know I didn't think I'd be seeing her again and she got all puppy-eyed. Good for her .


I can tell you that a lot of girls will think you are a chump, no matter how much inner game you have, until they see an example of you taking the lead/not giving a Fvck. I prefer not to spend time on girls like this. First they don't give a fvck about you, and suddenly they like you?? I say Fvck off to girls like that. A girl should like you from day 1.