"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pi**ed off with my self

lil hooligan

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Out Friday night with my sister and her best mate 8.5, I liked her mate and she liked me and she broke up with her bf that day Anyway we were getting with each other all night and then my sister went home and we Ended up heading home later, on the way home we almost started fvcking in some random guys garden
But didn't and headed home then my dad c0ckblocked me and set her to my sister room and me to mine,
anyways in morning she went home and my dad apologised and said he had work and Walls are paper thin... She is now back with her ex and now I'm pi**ed off with my self
And yes I do realise she was on rebound but if only...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh and yeh, anybody got any advice on what to do next I like this girl and nit just sex like I can see a relationship all I need is thy one chance but I need help getting it
 

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She's got a dude. So theres nothing you can probably do. Just do you and act like you have better things to do then talk to this girl. You missed that opportunity but don't even sweat it. You should have so many girls that that doesn't even matter.
 

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lil hooligan said:
Oh and yeh, anybody got any advice on what to do next I like this girl and nit just sex like I can see a relationship all I need is thy one chance but I need help getting it
I really hate when people say they can "see a relationship" with someone before they've even dated the girl.

One step at a time.
 

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I have met with her before a bit of kino etc but nothing special and was textin and calling for a couple of months but nothing came of it
Anyways cheers guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd be more pissed off at your Dad. What's he doing ****blocking you?!!! I'll be damned if I'd do that to a son of mine. I'd have a quiet word in his ear, 'Fill your boots son. Fill your boots'.
 

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I respect my dad he's the one who first gave me the saying sex and next among other things but he had work and my rooms next to his and the Walls are thin I did come in at like 6 in the morning also but yes I'm pi**ed but "there's plenty more fish in the sea" I'm annoyed but rejection is better than regret
 

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lil hooligan said:
Out Friday night with my sister and her best mate 8.5, I liked her mate and she liked me and she broke up with her bf that day Anyway we were getting with each other all night and then my sister went home and we Ended up heading home later, on the way home we almost started fvcking in some random guys garden
But didn't and headed home then my dad c0ckblocked me and set her to my sister room and me to mine,
anyways in morning she went home and my dad apologised and said he had work and Walls are paper thin... She is now back with her ex and now I'm pi**ed off with my self
And yes I do realise she was on rebound but if only...
All this crying for a vagina.. Chump
 

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Well the your 50% right I do like her and I do want to bed her even if I do it while she's on the rebound because you never know but I'm not screaming for it more like annoyed at a missed opportunity but oh well how does it go,
I think you are really fit your fit but my gosh don't you know it or the more recent and how every guy should see it I'm sexy and I know it

GL too you all
 
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