"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pi**ed off with my self

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Out Friday night with my sister and her best mate 8.5, I liked her mate and she liked me and she broke up with her bf that day Anyway we were getting with each other all night and then my sister went home and we Ended up heading home later, on the way home we almost started fvcking in some random guys garden
But didn't and headed home then my dad c0ckblocked me and set her to my sister room and me to mine,
anyways in morning she went home and my dad apologised and said he had work and Walls are paper thin... She is now back with her ex and now I'm pi**ed off with my self
And yes I do realise she was on rebound but if only...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh and yeh, anybody got any advice on what to do next I like this girl and nit just sex like I can see a relationship all I need is thy one chance but I need help getting it
 
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She's got a dude. So theres nothing you can probably do. Just do you and act like you have better things to do then talk to this girl. You missed that opportunity but don't even sweat it. You should have so many girls that that doesn't even matter.
 
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lil hooligan said:
Oh and yeh, anybody got any advice on what to do next I like this girl and nit just sex like I can see a relationship all I need is thy one chance but I need help getting it
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I really hate when people say they can "see a relationship" with someone before they've even dated the girl.

One step at a time.
 
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I have met with her before a bit of kino etc but nothing special and was textin and calling for a couple of months but nothing came of it
Anyways cheers guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd be more pissed off at your Dad. What's he doing ****blocking you?!!! I'll be damned if I'd do that to a son of mine. I'd have a quiet word in his ear, 'Fill your boots son. Fill your boots'.
 
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I respect my dad he's the one who first gave me the saying sex and next among other things but he had work and my rooms next to his and the Walls are thin I did come in at like 6 in the morning also but yes I'm pi**ed but "there's plenty more fish in the sea" I'm annoyed but rejection is better than regret
 
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lil hooligan said:
Out Friday night with my sister and her best mate 8.5, I liked her mate and she liked me and she broke up with her bf that day Anyway we were getting with each other all night and then my sister went home and we Ended up heading home later, on the way home we almost started fvcking in some random guys garden
But didn't and headed home then my dad c0ckblocked me and set her to my sister room and me to mine,
anyways in morning she went home and my dad apologised and said he had work and Walls are paper thin... She is now back with her ex and now I'm pi**ed off with my self
And yes I do realise she was on rebound but if only...
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All this crying for a vagina.. Chump
 
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Well the your 50% right I do like her and I do want to bed her even if I do it while she's on the rebound because you never know but I'm not screaming for it more like annoyed at a missed opportunity but oh well how does it go,
I think you are really fit your fit but my gosh don't you know it or the more recent and how every guy should see it I'm sexy and I know it

GL too you all
 
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