Physically became paralyzed

[Shapoopie]

I searched and didn't find anything on this, so bear with me.

Long story short, I went to hold this chick I went out with's hand, but everytime I moved my hand and arm towards hers, it wouldn't move. It moved in other directions, just not the towards het direction.

I've heard of mentally and verbally freezing up, but physically??? How/What can I do to get over this next time it comes up? Also, why does it happen? It's like a "WHAT THE FU¢K" moment... Thanks dudes!

 

[SHakuhachi]

I`ll guess you were afraid of rejection.

Next time you meet her, just do it. Don`t think about - just do it.

 

[AngelusPUA]

Pull your pants down, look between your legs, are there balls down there?

 

[Delta]

apart from that useful tip,

talk about it with friends or even consult your doctor or a counselor... just to ask them about it.

i mean if you really couldn't no matter how hard your tried, if nothing else, that's really interesting.

find out what's going on.

good luck.

delta.

 

[AngelusPUA]

It's obviously a lack of confidence, he just needs to work on his confidence.

 

[rocky_mtn]

Its tough goinig where you haven't gone before, but...

Visualize...

Pro atheletes will visualize cracking the ball over the fence and then running around the bases. You need to do the same thing. Visualize just grabbing her hand and giving it a reassuring sqeeze and looking into her eyes and smiling.

Visualize it like it will happen. You will be a success.

Then next time you are out, take a deep breath and carry out what you have visualized. Just go through the movements, you are the man and you have every right to grab that girls hand and be one with her. You will have success.





And if you guys have to bust on him for trying, then why bother posting if you're just dissing a brother and not giving him any help.

 

[Tomatoes]

You either need to do 1 of 3 things.

You have a serious fear of rejection. Im guessing on a physical side.


1. Go for the 3 second rule. Just do what comes to you.....dont analzye it....people on here over analyze.

2. Use the "**** it" attitude. Just go for it.....Seriouslly.....whats the worst thing that could possiblly happen in a "Real World". When you think about it.....its not alot. She might say "Take your hand off me". SO WHAT? If you never shoot you never score.

3. Get your arms taken off as your not using them properly....

 

[Shapoopie]

It took like an hour before my arm could move towards her, it felt like there was a wall or something blocking it.

But yeah, rocky mtn, that approach works for my golf game, a I had some of my BEST shots yesterday. I can't believe I didn't think of that.

 

[mountain]

watch/listen to/think of something funny.. it's a matter of you taking yourself too seriously or if you have to, take a drink before you see her