Physical domination works

[BetterCallSaul]

Being a married guy it isn't often that I get to post here either asking for advice or talking about a success story, but I have one and am happy to report this sh!t works. My personality for the longest time has usually been focused on eye contact, mannerisms, verbal cues and generally maintaining frame when dealing with women. Physical stuff has mostly been just the typical KINO, nothing major. Last week i decided to try something completely different with the wife by being more physical.

I've been hounding her for a good while about keeping her appearance up since most married women tend to let themselves go, usually due to laziness because they don't have to "try" anymore, and while my wife would often claim she's putting in effort, I know laziness when I see it. Well, the past few weeks she's been making more of an effort to getting more exercise and got her hair done like I like it, and started wearing panties and bra that are more sexy. I of course notice this stuff and I like it. One day last week she's wearing her newly permed sexy hair in a pony tail along with some nice tight fitting yoga pants, considering she just got back from going to a yoga class.

So I walk up to her on her side, she's talking about some crap about the class I don't remember, just as she finishes some sentence I grab her pony tail and pull her head back to kiss her pretty deep. She's absolutely caught off guard but offers no resistance. For a good 10-15 seconds after I'm done with her she's compeltely speechless and getting flushed. Knowing my wife as I do, her panties are soaked by now. And like most any woman, she feels the need to start talking about some nonsense to fill the silence and so she starts talking about how she was watching some video the other day of people driving through one of those wildlife areas where animals are free to roam around and how she saw some monkey jump on someone's car and start bending the female over to bang her. I knew she was down to bang, hell she's DTF damn near anytime I want it, but the point is I wanted to confine it to just that one action to see how it worked.

I've done random physical escalations before like just throwing her over the side of some furniture so I could bang her when I felt like it, but I didn't escalate to banging right then because I didn't want to. I wanted to try this and see how it worked. It works great.

Guys if you are confident and comfortable with yourself and you are vibing with some chick you just met, physical domination of a woman will f*cking work every single time if you do it right.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Being a married guy it isn't often that I get to post here either asking for advice or talking about a success story, but I have one and am happy to report this sh!t works. My personality for the longest time has usually been focused on eye contact, mannerisms, verbal cues and generally maintaining frame when dealing with women. Physical stuff has mostly been just the typical KINO, nothing major. Last week i decided to try something completely different with the wife by being more physical.

I've been hounding her for a good while about keeping her appearance up since most married women tend to let themselves go, usually due to laziness because they don't have to "try" anymore, and while my wife would often claim she's putting in effort, I know laziness when I see it. Well, the past few weeks she's been making more of an effort to getting more exercise and got her hair done like I like it, and started wearing panties and bra that are more sexy. I of course notice this stuff and I like it. One day last week she's wearing her newly permed sexy hair in a pony tail along with some nice tight fitting yoga pants, considering she just got back from going to a yoga class.

So I walk up to her on her side, she's talking about some crap about the class I don't remember, just as she finishes some sentence I grab her pony tail and pull her head back to kiss her pretty deep. She's absolutely caught off guard but offers no resistance. For a good 10-15 seconds after I'm done with her she's compeltely speechless and getting flushed. Knowing my wife as I do, her panties are soaked by now. And like most any woman, she feels the need to start talking about some nonsense to fill the silence and so she starts talking about how she was watching some video the other day of people driving through one of those wildlife areas where animals are free to roam around and how she saw some monkey jump on someone's car and start bending the female over to bang her. I knew she was down to bang, hell she's DTF damn near anytime I want it, but the point is I wanted to confine it to just that one action to see how it worked.

I've done random physical escalations before like just throwing her over the side of some furniture so I could bang her when I felt like it, but I didn't escalate to banging right then because I didn't want to. I wanted to try this and see how it worked. It works great.

Guys if you are confident and comfortable with yourself and you are vibing with some chick you just met, physical domination of a woman will f*cking work every single time if you do it right.

Yeah it works alright, they allow it and get a thrill off the height of the mans passions.

However there is a small sect of women who do not believe men should be allowed to act like this, and they will trap you and say you forced them, etc.

 

[logicallefty]

Yeah it works alright, they allow it and get a thrill off the height of the mans passions.

However there is a small sect of women who do not believe men should be allowed to act like this, and they will trap you and say you forced them, etc.

Agreed. I think Saul's idea is perfect for a married guy or even a LTR that's got some months under it's belt. But I don't think I'd want to try this with some chick I just met/was just getting to know. She could not like it cuz her "abusive ex" did it to her in the past or some sh|t. Cry assault or any stupid cr@p.

"If her panties be dry, then watch it she my lie." - Lefty :yes:

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Agreed. I think Saul's idea is perfect for a married guy or even a LTR that's got some months under it's belt. But I don't think I'd want to try this with some chick I just met/was just getting to know. She could not like it cuz her "abusive ex" did it to her in the past or some sh|t. Cry assault or any stupid cr@p.

"If her panties be dry, then watch it she my lie." - Lefty :yes:

She might be OK with someone doing it, but she might know exactly that you WILL do it, and she wants to trap you if you try. She will make you jump through a million hoops to drop your sexual confidence a few notches first.

It might not be nothing wrong with you. You might have a whole bunch of sexual confidence and swagger, that she simply wants to drain a bit.

 

[Rainman4707]

David Shade's book on female sexuality is a good & interesting read.

He basically says the same. Be dominating. Take her when you want & fu*k her hard & good. I've also read somewhere that after you've taken her, cuddle & caress her for a little while after.

I gave this method some thought, but haven't tried it yet. Don't think I want to either.

I like OP's example, but David Shade's idea of taking her whenever you feel like it. Not for me

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

David Shade's book on female sexuality is a good & interesting read.

He basically says the same. Be dominating. Take her when you want & fu*k her hard & good. I've also read somewhere that after you've taken her, cuddle & caress her for a little while after.

I gave this method some thought, but haven't tried it yet. Don't think I want to either.

I like OP's example, but David Shade's idea of taking her whenever you feel like it. Not for me

It's my style too. Some times they won't be feeling good and I can account for those.

However my style does incorporate that if your not that hot for the sex, that unless it's going to be terrible for you to do it,that you as a female could say, well I don't think I'm going to be into it, can you hurry, and give a little 2-5 mins session.

Good sex keeps the peace and the stress down like nothing else... It's communication.

You shouldn't be taking it if she's cramping in serious pain, or having a tramatic issue and she doesn't feel like being bothered.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Nice guys finish last because they are nice in the bedroom.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Saul,
If you had been walking to Damascus,I would know what happened...Yes you caught your Woman in a that mildly insecure stage where they feel a need to change a bit maybe doll themselves up,your behaviour satisfied her needs and doubtless payed off later...But there is a problem here that so many Guys don't realise,people are not,one size fits all,they are all different and many within themselves are different from one day to the next..To believe that brute domination works on all Women all the time is crazy.....I believe the change for so many over the last three or four generations,from a Rural to an Urban existence has eliminated the learning that observing Animals used to give us...dogs,cats,cattle,horses,are all different,some remarkably so...By observing these lesser creatures,then we improve our ability to understand Human beings,who are much more sophisticated in their emotional interactions...Nothing substitutes for experience,to know how far to go,to probe boundaries without offense,to read body language and subliminal cues all takes time and life experience.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Dear Saul,
If you had been walking to Damascus,I would know what happened...Yes you caught your Woman in a that mildly insecure stage where they feel a need to change a bit maybe doll themselves up,your behaviour satisfied her needs and doubtless payed off later...But there is a problem here that so many Guys don't realise,people are not,one size fits all,they are all different and many within themselves are different from one day to the next..To believe that brute domination works on all Women all the time is crazy.....I believe the change for so many over the last three or four generations,from a Rural to an Urban existence has eliminated the learning that observing Animals used to give us...dogs,cats,cattle,horses,are all different,some remarkably so...By observing these lesser creatures,then we improve our ability to understand Human beings,who are much more sophisticated in their emotional interactions...Nothing substitutes for experience,to know how far to go,to probe boundaries without offense,to read body language and subliminal cues all takes time and life experience.

You nailed this. All are different, and they are even different from day to day.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Being a married guy it isn't often that I get to post here either asking for advice or talking about a success story, but I have one and am happy to report this sh!t works. My personality for the longest time has usually been focused on eye contact, mannerisms, verbal cues and generally maintaining frame when dealing with women. Physical stuff has mostly been just the typical KINO, nothing major. Last week i decided to try something completely different with the wife by being more physical.

I've been hounding her for a good while about keeping her appearance up since most married women tend to let themselves go, usually due to laziness because they don't have to "try" anymore, and while my wife would often claim she's putting in effort, I know laziness when I see it. Well, the past few weeks she's been making more of an effort to getting more exercise and got her hair done like I like it, and started wearing panties and bra that are more sexy. I of course notice this stuff and I like it. One day last week she's wearing her newly permed sexy hair in a pony tail along with some nice tight fitting yoga pants, considering she just got back from going to a yoga class.

So I walk up to her on her side, she's talking about some crap about the class I don't remember, just as she finishes some sentence I grab her pony tail and pull her head back to kiss her pretty deep. She's absolutely caught off guard but offers no resistance. For a good 10-15 seconds after I'm done with her she's compeltely speechless and getting flushed. Knowing my wife as I do, her panties are soaked by now. And like most any woman, she feels the need to start talking about some nonsense to fill the silence and so she starts talking about how she was watching some video the other day of people driving through one of those wildlife areas where animals are free to roam around and how she saw some monkey jump on someone's car and start bending the female over to bang her. I knew she was down to bang, hell she's DTF damn near anytime I want it, but the point is I wanted to confine it to just that one action to see how it worked.

I've done random physical escalations before like just throwing her over the side of some furniture so I could bang her when I felt like it, but I didn't escalate to banging right then because I didn't want to. I wanted to try this and see how it worked. It works great.

Guys if you are confident and comfortable with yourself and you are vibing with some chick you just met, physical domination of a woman will f*cking work every single time if you do it right.

Theres a bunch of married guys who lose attractiveness and swag in marriage who could use DJ game. Give more advise for one who wants to keep the heat in a long term relation.

 

[Dryden]

I believe this is right, but it is a danger, and it is a danger if you believe it is a danger.

Keep your confidence up as well, but if you do it and you are not confident, it can turn into hell. Don't run too large a risks, I would say. Don't risk your life for forcing something you don't feel up to.