Photographers

[zekko]

I've watched several videos on YouTube recently where a guy approaches a pretty girl on the street, identifies himself as a photographer, tells her he noticed how beautiful she is, and asks if he can take some pictures of her. In the ones I've seen, the girl has been flattered and poses for some pictures for him. I've always thought deep down, most young girls want to be a model, they seem to be receptive to photographers. I think they see them as artists, and like that they appreciate their beauty as beyond the mere sexual.

There was no intent to get a lay out of the interaction, or at least none was presented. Maybe there was though, or maybe the guy was just trying to build up his own arsenal of fap material lol. Anyway, I would like to see some videos where the interaction didn't go so well, like she called him a creep or something.

I know we've had some photographers on this forum here and there. There's a long tradition of photographers shagging their models, dating back a long time. Painters too. I knew a girl who posed nude for her art teacher, she said he had the painting of her hanging up in his house. I'm thinking this sort of thing might be frowned upon by the modern culture though?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I've watched several videos on YouTube recently where a guy approaches a pretty girl on the street, identifies himself as a photographer, tells her he noticed how beautiful she is, and asks if he can take some pictures of her. In the ones I've seen, the girl has been flattered and poses for some pictures for him. I've always thought deep down, most young girls want to be a model, they seem to be receptive to photographers. I think they see them as artists, and like that they appreciate their beauty as beyond the mere sexual.

There was no intent to get a lay out of the interaction, or at least none was presented. Maybe there was though, or maybe the guy was just trying to build up his own arsenal of fap material lol. Anyway, I would like to see some videos where the interaction didn't go so well, like she called him a creep or something.

I know we've had some photographers on this forum here and there. There's a long tradition of photographers shagging their models, dating back a long time. Painters too. I knew a girl who posed nude for her art teacher, she said he had the painting of her hanging up in his house. I'm thinking this sort of thing might be frowned upon by the modern culture though?

I've heard that many "seductions" happen with male photographers who entice the female models to get less and less clothed as they become more and more comfortable with them, tell them how beautiful and sexy they are, etc and then before you know it they are naked and they start ramping up touch, etc and then it turns into full out sex...

Lots of allegations of that same "gambit" happening over and over again because it works well.

 

[zekko]

I've heard that many "seductions" happen with male photographers who entice the female models to get less and less clothed as they become more and more comfortable with them, tell them how beautiful and sexy they are, etc and then before you know it they are naked and they start ramping up touch, etc and then it turns into full out sex...

That's interesting, because so may PUA gurus (and posters here) will tell you to never tell a woman she's beautiful because she supposedly hears it all the time and finds it boring. Yet, it seems to work for these photographers. IMO women actually want to show you their nudity, because let's face it, that's something they have going for them, and they want to get a positive reaction from you.

Personally, I think this "never tell a woman she's beautiful" idea has kind of messed with me, because now I won't do it. I think I have a deep appreciation for female beauty though, and I think if can be effective if you bring sincerity and authenticity to the compliment. Of course, these same guys who tell you to never compliment a girl, will approach with the "You're cute, and I wanted to meet you" line. Seems like hypocrisy to me.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Probably faked or heavily doctored

 

[BackInTheGame78]

That's interesting, because so may PUA gurus (and posters here) will tell you to never tell a woman she's beautiful because she supposedly hears it all the time and finds it boring. Yet, it seems to work for these photographers. IMO women actually want to show you their nudity, because let's face it, that's something they have going for them, and they want to get a positive reaction from you.

Personally, I think this "never tell a woman she's beautiful" idea has kind of messed with me, because now I won't do it. I think I have a deep appreciation for female beauty though, and I think if can be effective if you bring sincerity and authenticity to the compliment. Of course, these same guys who tell you to never compliment a girl, will approach with the "You're cute, and I wanted to meet you" line. Seems like hypocrisy to me.

I think I'm certain scenarios it definitely will work to your advantage...like when they are naked with you, or in vulnerable situations where they are nervous and unsure of themselves and need to know that they are actually desirable.

 

[Bokanovsky]

That's interesting, because so may PUA gurus (and posters here) will tell you to never tell a woman she's beautiful because she supposedly hears it all the time and finds it boring. Yet, it seems to work for these photographers. IMO women actually want to show you their nudity, because let's face it, that's something they have going for them, and they want to get a positive reaction from you.

Personally, I think this "never tell a woman she's beautiful" idea has kind of messed with me, because now I won't do it. I think I have a deep appreciation for female beauty though, and I think if can be effective if you bring sincerity and authenticity to the compliment. Of course, these same guys who tell you to never compliment a girl, will approach with the "You're cute, and I wanted to meet you" line. Seems like hypocrisy to me.

It may work better for photographers because it sounds like a “professional opinion” as opposed to just a generic, boring compliment.

The idea that you should never compliment women is
counterproductive. It’s perfectly fine to compliment, provide that you don’t do it too often and provided the girl already likes you.

 

[zekko]

The idea that you should never compliment women is
counterproductive. It’s perfectly fine to compliment, provide that you don’t do it too often and provided the girl already likes you.

I think it's fine to compliment a woman as long as you don't expect anything in return. A compliment should be given like a gift. If you're doing it to try to get laid, that's just pathetic.

 

[zekko]

Probably faked or heavily doctored

Maybe, but I didn't get that impression. There are a lot of these videos though, I'm sure some are faked, and some aren't.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Women are eternal fantasists so any guy that isnt quote " ordinary" she can conjure up some sort of scenario in her mind.

Painters , guitarists , singers , photographers ,

If you as the man aide in helping her fantasise well then her legs will open quickly

If you look at all female erotica its almost always psychological .....

some strange mysterious guy turns up in her town wow's her with his skill , status or story she tries to resist at first but finds herself thinking more and more about him then ultimately she can't resist anymore and must submit.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I've always liked the idea of taking a woman out and photographing her. It gives you an excuse to spend time together, be creative, and get to know each other. Photography has always interested me, and I've thought about starting a social media account dedicated to pictures of dishes I cook. Unfortunately, like many things, time is limited, so learning photography properly is something I've put off until later this year. I used to talk to a poster here name MikeDee before he deleted his account, who was a photographer, and he helped me optimize my camera and get some Lightroom presets. That's how far I got.

Either way, the only thing I'd be concerned about is women thinking you're using photography as a pretext to sexually assault them. For example, there was a case involving a Toronto party promoter who brought a teenage girl into his home through a modeling agency. She reportedly went there for what she believed was a legitimate photo shoot, began posing during the session, and was then allegedly assaulted.

Toronto photographer sexually assaulted teenage model during photo shoot: police | Globalnews.ca

 

[zekko]

Either way, the only thing I'd be concerned about is women thinking you're using photography as a pretext to sexually assault them. For example, there was a case involving a Toronto party promoter who brought a teenage girl into his home through a modeling agency..

This certainly happens, but just to be clear, in the videos I watched the guy just took some pictures of the girl right on the street where they were. They still managed to get some interesting poses/shots, like I remember some where she was leaning up against a tree. It was all in a very public place, a downtown area.

I have a nice camera, I'd like to get more use out of it. I always wonder what to take a picture of though. These days you can't just wander around your neighborhood taking pictures or you'll get accused of casing joints. Women are always nice photography subjects, being God's most beautiful creatures, but I don't think my girlfriend would care for the idea. I remember my high school girlfriend was taking photography, and she was always taking pictures. Maybe I should have taken that class. I think at the time I just had a polaroid and maybe an Instamatic though (if anyone around here still remembers those, which I doubt).

 

[Clockwerk50]

You could take pictures of food, family trips, cars, landscapes, sporting events, pets, architecture, and plenty of other things. The possibilities are endless.

P.S. I'd be wary of what you see on the internet. For example, I came across a "street photographer" a while back who was taking pictures of a woman on the street. Sorry that the video is in Spanish. I did a little digging and found that the woman has over 600,000 followers, which puts her firmly in influencer territory. At the end of the day, it could be staged, it could be selling a fantasy, or it could simply be a transactional arrangement where both parties benefit from the exposure and clout. Not everything you see online is as spontaneous as it appears. You may also get a lot more leeway from someone you already know, or from someone who finds you attractive and is open to the interaction, than you would from a random woman on the street.

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[CornbreadFed]

I think it's fine to compliment a woman as long as you don't expect anything in return. A compliment should be given like a gift. If you're doing it to try to get laid, that's just pathetic.

We took the nice guy narrative a little too far. It’s okay to be nice to women, it’s not okay to be nice to women only because you expect sex in return.

 

[zekko]

We took the nice guy narrative a little too far. It’s okay to be nice to women, it’s not okay to be nice to women only because you expect sex in return.

Yeah, I've never agreed with the term "nice guy". There's nothing "nice" about what you described above. In PUA speak, the "nice guy" is actually a jerk, and the "jerk" is actually a nice guy - because he goes for what he wants and is honest about it. The "nice guy" is a manipulating creep. I always thought there's a big difference between a nice guy and a "nice guy".

I've heard lot of women talk about the guy she's banging as "Oh, he's so nice". Or they used to call a guy "nice" to cushion the blow of rejecting him - they think it's a compliment. But now a lot of women - especially younger women - have absorbed PUA speak and use "nice guy" like a PUA would - same as "alpha", a lot of girls have picked up the term "alpha". Some guys think being called a "nice guy" is the kiss of death, but I disagree. Just ignore it and plow through. If you get called "too nice" though, that's very, very bad.