"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Phoning girls you meet in clubs...

shrewd

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I read that you should usually wait like 3 to 4 days before phoning a girl you met, to stay a challenge/mysterious etc, I was just wondering does this apply to girls you meet in clubs too? because say you're both drunk she may not remember you that well and if you wait like 1/2 a week she may not remember you at all. i THINK she'll remember me, cause we made out and danced for like 1/2 an hr together...but i don't wanna screw this up as it's the first number i've ever gotten.:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I say 2 days, but I don't like to pick up girls in clubs
 

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Here's my advice:

Do not worry about screwing up.

Call her and set a date. Make it short and to the point. Be a man.
 

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i've got alot of experience on this one.

heres my advice, sometimes with girls who i had picked up and got there number, i worried too much about "will they remember me?" so i never called. and the number sat there for months until i deleted it.
others i called, not once had they forgotten who i was. BUT here is a little tip which i try to remember to do.

once you score the number say something along the lines of
"when i call you, don't act like like you don't remember me"
that'll help it stick in her mind to remember ur name and everything..
 

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Make something funny about that situation. Say I just watched Swingers and they say to wait four days to call. I was more in the one-day or two-day mood (whichever you choose).

I seriously would call the next business day (If you got it on Friday, I would wait until Monday)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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cause we made out and danced for like 1/2 an hr together...but i don't wanna screw this up as it's the first number i've ever gotten.
what's the deal man?? if you had the confidence and game to make out with a chick and dance with her for a half hour it is really shocking to me that this is the first number you have EVER gotten.
 
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