“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Okay so i recently realized I can't do phone convos. I'm pretty good in real life, and i can usually gain the interest of most women. But when i get their phone numbers, and it comes time to call them, i just suck. I can't keep a convo going. Especially when the first thing you ask is "whats up" and the chicks response is "nothing." Thats the worst. Its even more difficult when its a chick i met once at a party or something. Yesterday I called this one chick who liked me, and i ended the convo within a minute, because i just couldnt think of anything to say. I need some advice on getting better at this, and i just want to clarify that i DON'T want a guide to phone sex. I want a gf and ive had so many opportunities that went to shiit because i cant talk on the phone. HELP ME!!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Talk about sex. Jump for it. Its fun. Most people are insecure talking about sex, so get that on the table and talking will be a lot easier.

Tell her you wanna make a porno or something like that. I'm 3 for 1 on that one.
 
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If she says nothing, then she's boring as hell and I don't see that worth going after.

Whatever floats down your boat.. As for talking about sex, not until you've established rapport. Most of the times it freaks 'em out and they end up calling you a pervert. (this is high school forum after all.)

Keep up to date with gossip and relate what she says to a broader subject till the point where it's easy for you to talk about what you want. Lead the convo, be an Alpha.
 
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talk about where your going to go on your next date at, thats all the phone should be used for.
 
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For real..I called a girl one time...well, not girl, she was 26..anyway, and she said, "hello"....."hey, it's ryannath"...."oh hey ryannath, whats up"...."oh just thought , i'd call ya....can you meet me somewhere"...."sure".....then we arranged it...simple and lasted about 1 min.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ryannath said:
For real..I called a girl one time...well, not girl, she was 26..anyway, and she said, "hello"....."hey, it's ryannath"...."oh hey ryannath, whats up"...."oh just thought , i'd call ya....can you meet me somewhere"...."sure".....then we arranged it...simple and lasted about 1 min.
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ah yes. makes sense. what about for the girls that live out of town (ones that i can actually get ass from). should i just not be calling them?
 
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the phone is a bad way to have conversation with girls.

phone is good for a few things

1. dates and events, invitations whatever
2. girls using you as an emo tampon

I can keep a fairly good conversation going on the phone, just talking about what's happening, stories, etc. but that all depends on the girl. if she doesn't respond more and input her own stuff, you're sunk.
 
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